Hello and welcome to this episode of Spunky Spirit. I am psychic medium Carrie Mugs and today we are going to talk about our souls being eternal because I get this a lot in readings and I just want you to know that spirits will come through and say that we are eternal. So we don't ever cease to exist. Our souls are forever throughout eternity and they're never ending. And I get this when spirits will come through for readings and they say that they're never ending and they're always around them. The reason why I kind of wanted to talk about this today is a couple reasons and we'll get to them. We'll get to them as we go along. But one is because I feel like when somebody passes a lot of times you'll hear people say it was their time, it was the best, you know. It just don't say those things to people who are grieving because it was their time is not going to be helpful and it's better that they were not in pain, is not going to be helpful because ultimately the person who lost their loved one wants them to be here and to be healthy. But what happens is we get this thing where after they pass, after our loved ones passed, we wonder if they're around us or we wonder if they still exist or we wonder if... because another thing a lot of people say is they're so busy on the other side they don't have time, time to be with you all the time. And another thing that's said too is if they are allowed to come see you they will. I don't believe these two things because first off I feel like we have free agency no matter where we're at or we have free will no matter where we're at whether on this side and on earth or on the other side. I feel like we always have free agency. I do know or feel like when spirits come through they cannot mess with your blueprint or your... so the blueprint that you made before you got here. If you have certain things that are on that blueprint that you want to experience they cannot mess with that. Now whether or not you want to experience hard things or easy things I don't want to get into detail of that because I don't want to ever tell somebody that their hardships are their own thing or their own on their own purpose or they wanted that on the other side because there's things on this earth that happen that that we would never in a million years think that we would ever want. So I'm not gonna say that but they cannot they cannot get involved or do anything that would hinder our journey or our experience that we wanted on on earth. Anything that has to do with our blueprint but they can and will be around us a lot to help us. Now you have to remember a soul isn't like a body so a soul can it's gonna be at a frequency it's gonna be at it's just a higher vibration and they can be at multiple places at the same time. They don't have to be with just you or just their kid or just their mom they can be like 10% here and 10% there and 10 and 20% with someone who needs them at that time. So I know it's hard to explain but that's what they say they can be with lots of different lots of different people at the same time in fact they'll come through in readings and they like to tell me who else they're with or they're with your sister there because she's going through this or they're with your brother because they're doing this or they're with their children and they're go they're doing this they like to come through and tell me that kind of stuff because it lets you know what else they're doing on the other side. Now they also still do things on the other side it's just like they will live on earth they would still have their own job they would still do certain things and then they would check in on you call you do things with you every once in a while too and if you have something of theirs on you or you hear their song or if you're wearing something of theirs or even if you get a tattoo with their intention it can tune into their frequency faster it can tune into them into them faster and it helps them be around you more it's like dialing the frequency on a radio station and when you hit the radio station they're there it's like always having that that dial to a certain radio station as soon as you turn on the radio and I don't think they're too busy on the other side I believe that they have things that they can do and I believe that they help others transition and I believe that they they do things that they want to they can be at any place in time that they want to be for a second but that doesn't mean they they're not always with you so when people say they're always with you in an essence they are because if you talk to them out loud or you say their name out loud they're right there they know that you're on their frequency you're tuning your radio into their dial so I believe and this is what they've kind of been you know this is just take what you what resonates with you and hold on to that because no one really actually knows the truth right nobody knows so this is not gospel according to Kerry this is just what I've been told and this is how I interpret it but you may interpret it completely different but I don't believe they need permission to come see us now I do believe that if they want to help us during some things they do kind of have to go by what our guides tell them our main guide and stuff like and those those guides because that our main guide is mostly working with us on our on our blueprint and on our contract so they can't get involved with that but they can divinely your ancestors or loved ones can divinely guide things to happen they can divinely guide things for you to see things to remind you of them they can divinely guide things for you to like loans or money or or blessings they can divinely guide or jobs or job interviews they can divinely guide and help us with that and I fully believe that they are they are because our souls are eternal and they're undestructible they're always there so I just want you to imagine if you were to pass over tomorrow would you just be like okay family see you later I'll see you when you come over and then live your own life or would you you would you be around your kids and your family and your mom and your dad and your spouse you would be with them all the time like you were on earth checking on them all the time and I think I they tell me they have that capability to be with you all the time so don't listen to people who say they're too busy on the other side or to be around you or they've got too much to do on the other side they can do all that and it still be with us and here's another thing too they're always progressing our souls are always always progressing and here on earth and on the other side and so it's kind of like we're always expanding and we're always learning whether we're on earth as a human or whether we're in spirit form we're always growing so it's kind of like Albert Einstein said life is like reading writing sorry life is like riding a bicycle you can't just stay in one place and keep balanced you have to keep moving forward you have to keep moving and that's another thing too that I want to talk about a little bit too when people tell you how long you get to grieve that's it that's not up to them there is no rule on how to grieve and there is no time limit on how long you should grieve and when people say you need to move on that's so hard because in your mind or our mind moving on sounds like we need to just get on with our lives and pretend that that person's just gone and that's not true because they are eternal and they are with us all the time so there's a difference between moving on and moving forward so moving forward you can do that you're on the same bicycle you just move forward it's not like you have to pretend that that person didn't exist or life goes on without them because their soul still exists so you just have to get on the bike after you fall down and you have to pedal and move forward not move on it's not like when you're getting on that bike you're leaving that loved one there at the spot that you fell down your loved one is riding running alongside of your bike with you trying to help keep you balanced and trying to help keep you up and when you do fall they're still there picking you up whether it be in spirit or in human form and so on earth when they were with you on earth they would pick you up in human form and help you balance the bike again and help you move move forward in spirit they're doing the same thing it's just they're in a different form so I don't want you to think that when they pass they're gone they're gone forever or there you can't ever see them again maybe in this on this earth you can't see them in their body but you're gonna be able to have experiences with their soul because they don't stop existing and you are not it's not like they get to the other side and say oh well that was a great life now I'm gonna move on they don't move they move forward to moving on is different completely different than moving forward and so when they move forward they still surround us they still help us ride that bike and they still love us and they're still with us and they know the things that we're going through they're not too busy and they're not not around they can be and they don't have to have permission to be with us now they do have to have permission again if they want to get involved in our soul contract and if the outcome is gonna be not what we want to experience so so that's hopefully that kind of helps a little bit too but I just want you to realize that we are always expanding as a soul always on earth and then when we pass over we're gonna expand and so they are also growing on the other side not only can they grow with you but they help you grow and that because especially if you're part of their soul family if you guys are in it you'll know you you know it's like soul mates soul soul soul families they're connected and they're always like it's kind of like I always like it too a Saturday night live sitcom at the beginning you get up you tell everybody hi you do your monologue and then you go throughout the different scenarios of the of the skits and then at the end your whole family comes together again and says this is what I did in this skit and this is what I did in this skit and so it's kind of like a reunion of some sorts so and I don't want to get into like reincarnation and everything because I get a little bit more difficult but just all you have to know is that your your loved one is still in spirit and still available to you and if somebody if you go to a reader and they say that person has been reincarnated into this person all you need to know don't let it confuse you don't let it freak you out all you need to know is that your loved one's spirit still exists still exists and is still watching over you even if somebody tells you they've reincarnated some some into another family member you just trust your gut on that it's not that it can't happen it's just that that your loved one's spirit is always eternal if that spirit is eternal so they're still watching over you they're still guiding and direct you they're still trying to keep you balanced on that bike they're still trying to help you pedal and keep moving so they help us with all of our experiences they help us with our blueprints they help us with anything they try and let us know we're around the problem is sometimes we get so deep in our grief that we don't look at we don't see the signs around us and we don't see it we just see a penny on the floor as a penny on the floor and but if you start watching and start noticing more you're gonna start being able to see it more because then they think it's like awesome that you can that you can understand or you can see them or you can you can that you know that they're trying to talk to you because I want you to imagine again that you're on the other side and you're trying to talk to one of your family members and they just can't hear you or they're just not aware and all of a sudden you're like okay I'm gonna move this penny right in front of them and they see it and they're like oh my gosh and you would be so excited right so just be aware of what's going on and I promise you sometimes you think that you know you find pennies everywhere and you're like there is that really them I promise you that it is and just notice to you what you're thinking or if something happened that day and validate that if they're trying to validate that something else that happened that day is really them or they're validating that they're there now if you do get to the point we're seeing pennies all over the all over the place and you're like okay is this really you then ask for a different sign for a while change it up they are very capable of doing that they can do that for you and they will do that for you so just kind of watch that so I kind of wanted to talk to you too about because our soul is eternal and our soul is always growing and we're always expanding that we are going to have experiences on earth that are going to test us and that are going to be really hard and that is that is what we're here for on this earth and the thing that I want you to remember though is that these things these trials and tribulations that we're going through they are not punishments from the universe they are not punishments from God they're not because you did something wrong or now karma is a very universal law karma karma is a universal law karma is it's not a revengeful law it's just very universal and it is true you get what you put out there so if you had an experience when you were younger and you did something then it can come back to you eventually but if you're going through a trial like cancer or a sickness you are not being punished by God you haven't done anything wrong I remember I had a friend that we were going on a walk and she thought that she lost her baby as a form of punishment and there is no way that you are being punished in any way by God it's just that sometimes we have these trials and these tribulations on earth and how we react to them is it's not even a test really like some people even think that these things are tests and we have to like test how we get through them and it's not it's not a punishment it's not a test it is however an experience we experience these things and we feel these emotions because emotions are the biggest things that we have to learn how to understand and control on earth so on earth our emotions on our radio frequency are like at a high volume like volume 10 when on the spirit realm we see a different perspective of things we see things differently and we don't let our emotions control us or we don't make decisions based on our emotions our emotions are more in a volume 2 on that frequency so we still feel them a little bit and understand them but not near the extent we do on earth and that's the hardest thing too is trying to get through all these emotions on earth and try and figure out how to how to really and all these really love ourselves through these emotions and know that all of our experiences are what created us and we have to love ourselves regardless of the karma that we created regardless of the of the of what am I trying to say regardless of the karma that we created and regardless of the trials that we've been through they've made us who we are and we need to love ourselves according to who we are and I kind of talked about this last week in how our wounds can help heal us or our wounds can help us grow spiritually and it all comes back to this it's because we are an eternal soul that keeps learning and keeps growing and so not only are you an eternal soul the soul is your loved ones that are on the other side so they're learning and expanding and growing on the other side and part of that is helping you on earth they get to help you with all of the stuff they get to help you ride your bike so they grow they grow they help us grow spiritually so when you are going through trials or when you're going through hard times this is when you're picking up your bike you're trying to balance your bike you're trying to move forward and balance your bike because if you are at a time that everything's hunky-dory and you have nothing absolutely wrong in your life and you just do the same thing every day and it's all the same and you're comfortable and everything's great that's good you're either in a rest moment or you're in a stagnant moment and we don't grow in a stagnant moment we can grow in a rest moment if we put in the work and we work and we do the things that we want to and we we try and manifest those things then there can be rest times and during those rest times the momentum just can pick up and the rest time is when it can just like explode and I've had that happen lots of times I'll work work work and work and then I'll just be like I'm so tired I'm gonna and I'm not saying I work to exhaustion like you got a balance just like the bike you got a balance you can't just do one pedal at a time you got to do both so you got a balance but you got to move forward and there are times when you've got to stop the bike and rest and you can rest but when you're just like riding your boat riding your bike super slow and and just taking your time and you just like the way things are that can be a restful time too but if you are stagnant and you're not moving and you stop your bike and you try and balance that doesn't work and so you've got to keep moving forward so you aren't learning if you're in a stagnant motion and there's a difference between stagnant and difference but there's a difference between stagnant and resting resting is like I just said when you're just resting but stagnant is when you just kind of don't have any goals and you don't want to expand and you don't want to experience anything and you just want to live your life and and that's okay too because sometimes sometimes our life here is to just be you know sometimes somebody I remember in medium one time saying that sometimes when we pick a life on earth it's just a relaxing one but if you want your soul to grow and you want to keep expanding then you've got to keep moving you've got to even if it's just tiny movements even if it's just one day if your goal is something and you just keep moving forward that one little tiny thing a day it just helps you grow so if you are in a part of your life that's trying and tribulations and just know that you're growing just know that it's it's part of your soul growth it's part of who makes you who you are and it's part of life it's part of what we go through but in no way are you being punished and in no way is your loved one and spirit mad at you they see the whole perspective they can be frustrated about the way things play out in life or if somebody treats you bad they can be frustrated about that but they see the big perspective they see the whole picture they know why that is happening they know if someone treats you bad they know why that person is treating you bad because they see the backstory of that person if anything that's going on they you have to remember they're not third dimensional like us they can see why that person is doing what they do so they are rarely rarely upset or mad on the other side in fact most spirits that I've ever dealt with have ever wanted to come through and apologize for things or just let them know that they're helping so so if you are going through some trials right now I want you to know keep pedaling keep riding that bike in fact that pedaling but bike thing that I gave you our souls much like is written by Albert life is like riding a bicycle to keep your balance you must keep moving that is a quote by Albert Einstein so and I love it because when you're in growing and when you're expanding your year you continue to move you're always moving and when you're resting you can continue to expand but when you're just kind of sitting in fear and not moving forward then that's when the growth stops and that's when you get sad and that's when you don't feel like you contribute or you you don't feel like you can be you and that's when you don't feel like you're yourself authentically and so the moving part is to keep pedaling that bike and keep it balanced and know that your loved ones and your ancestors are helping you every time you fall down they help you get back on the bike and they help you balance again and they're behind you running next to the bike they're not in the distance watching you from afar from the time that they passed they're running what right next to you on the bike just like when you see those videos of a parent helping a child learn how to ride a bike and then they take the training wheels off and the parent runs as fast as they can next to him I promise you that's what your loved ones are doing they are just waiting for you to come home and so but you still have things to do you still have bikes to ride and you still have lots of different bikes to ride in different places to take your bike so so now all you need to do is just decide where you want to take that bike and where you want to go and move towards that where do you want to pedal your bike to next and is it time to rest then stop the bike and put your feet down and rest for a minute but don't don't get off the bike unless you fall unless you fall off the bike and then spirits can help you get back on so I hope that helps you guys I just want you to know that in that you are no way being punished and your spirits your spirit your loved ones on the other side don't hate you and they're not mad at you they know that you love them they know that you think about them all the time we are eternal we are our souls are eternal and I just I can't even I mean you could just take my word for it but I just know at the bottom of my heart that we are eternal and I know that your loved ones are watching over free over you and I know you're gonna see them again and I know they're not too busy on the other side they are riding right next to you they're running right next to you while you're riding this bike whether you fall or move on or even if you're stagnant they're still with you but the goal is is to keep riding and keep riding that bike so I love you guys so much I'm trying to think of what's coming up I can't think of anything because I've been so busy with this move and everything's been working out so we're done with the move but I do have I'm right in the middle of spirit circles this month and I am I know I keep saying this but I am gonna do group readings I just have to figure out how that's gonna work in my schedule like do I have to get do I have to add another day to my reading schedule do I have to or do I do I do on the weekends I have to figure out what works best for my schedule so I don't ride my bike too fast and get too tired so group readings are coming retreats are coming lots of different things are coming so I'm really excited and this year is gonna be awesome and I know I always say that this year I can do it because the tumor is gone it's completely healthy it's awesome that I have tons of energy and I know spirit is 100% behind me saying let's do this I know that that's why we caught the tumor when we did last year right at the end of the year because this year is gonna be and then the new space came and spirit just keeps saying we're doing this because spirit is riding my bike riding helping me ride my bike they're right next to me saying you got this and they're cheering me on so so there we go and it's coming so watch for merchandise to got merchandise coming all the things that are awesome because I love you guys and I just owe you so much and so I will oh next week I have an awesome awesome interview that I'm doing with someone who I adore one of my one of my favorite mentors I'm gonna be doing an interview with him and it's gonna be amazing so stay tuned for next week I love you guys so much and I will see you next week
