Hello and welcome to this week's episode of Spunky Spirit.
I am psychic medium Cari Mugz.
And today we're going to talk about all the ways that your loved ones can come across to you in spirit and let you know that they're around.
So there's lots of different ways that you can connect to your loved ones and a lot of people don't know it.
And so when they go throughout their day or they do certain things, they don't know that their loved ones actually trying to connect to them.
So we're going to go over some of the things so that way that you're more aware.
Now the first thing is I want you to know that they are around you.
And if you listen to my podcast quite a bit, then you know I'm adamant about you letting them letting you know that they're with you because lots of people are like, oh, they're too busy when they pass over.
They've got things to do.
Bull.
They're with you all the time.
They don't have a body so they can be there just a frequency so they can be with you.
They can be with your other loved ones.
Their other loved ones.
They can be wherever they want to be.
They still have their free agency.
The only thing that they can't do is they can't mess with our contracts.
So if we have certain things in our blueprints or our sole contracts that we want to do, they can't mess with that.
But they can guide and direct us and help us and be with us and they don't need permission.
I've never had a spirit say that they need permission and also to you can visit them anytime and still move forward.
Still move forward.
Lots of people say that if you can't let go, you can't heal, which I don't believe is entirely true either.
Like I do believe that there can be forms of depression that start when a loved one passes over.
But I honestly believe that they can still communicate with you just like they could on earth when they would come over or visit or they would be with you all the time.
They can still do those things and they are eternal.
We are all eternal.
So if they still want to be next to you or around you, they can.
They can be, they still have their things that they do on the other side too.
They have certain jobs that they do or they can help people.
Lots of lots of spirits come through and say they help other people.
What is it called to transcend?
Transcend, you know, oh my gosh, transfer.
That's not the word.
Transition.
That's the word.
They help people transition to the other side.
But I just want you to know that you are still part of their life and it's not any, they still exist and it's not even, it's not any different than being on earth.
Earth is just third dimensional or they're going to be at a higher frequency but they can still be around you whenever they want and you can tap into them whenever you want.
And they still like to be around us.
We're part of their families.
They're part of their self-harm.
And I always ask this question, if you were to pass tomorrow, would you just like go over to a place and just hang out and never visit your friends and family on earth?
No.
So just know that they're doing the same.
They're coming through and they're visiting you quite often, quite a bit, when you need them the most.
You know when these times are.
So here are some of the signs and symbols or some of the things that you will see from your loved ones after they have passed.
Butterflies, dragonflies, any kind of insects, ladybugs, bees, they can control or manipulate winged animals.
Now they aren't the winged animals.
Their spirits are not inside of those things but they can manipulate them.
So lots of spirits come through with butterflies, especially children spirits.
I felt like they come through with butterflies.
And butterflies, dragonflies, dragonflies is a huge sign for me.
That's why I have a tattoo on my hand.
And just any kind of ladybugs.
Ladybugs are huge too.
And any kind of insect that can fly, they can bring through because they can let flies, even just regular flies.
I've had lots of people talk about how these big flies won't stop bothering them after a loved one's passed.
So just know and you don't even know where they came from.
So they can use these insects to let you know that they're around.
Now does that mean every time there's a fly on you that there's a spirit with you?
No.
So it just means that sometimes a spirit is trying to get your attention or someone's trying to get your attention.
So if you have a fly continually bug you all the time, then start to be more aware of what else is going on and what other signs and symbols you can watch for.
Now music, music is a huge one, especially if they loved music while they were on earth.
And especially if they loved to play it, if they loved to sing, if they loved any kind of instrumental stuff, they'll use music all the time.
So if you hear the same song playing more than like one or two times a day, or if you hear a song that was significant to them, or a artist that was significant to them multiple times a day or quite often, this means that they're with you.
Also too, if you're like in a grocery store and you hear a specific song that they loved over the intercom, then you get in the car and you hear the same song.
This is them.
They're trying to let you know that they're with you.
Now just because I want to make this very clear too, just because you do get these symbols and signs from spirits or your past loved one doesn't mean they're trying to give you a message.
It doesn't mean you have to call a medium and be like, "What are they trying to tell me?"
It just means that they're with you and they're guiding you, especially if you're going through a hard time.
It just means that they want to say hi or they want to remind you that they're with you.
It just means that they love you.
It's their way of saying that they love you because a lot of times they'll try and get your attention and they can't get it.
And so when they finally realize that you know that this is them, then they'll continue to do so.
It's like the phone turns on or the phone is ringing.
And also too, just remember that they're not trying to give you this significant big message.
Most of the time they're just letting you know that they're with you and that they love you.
Okay?
Animals.
Animals are huge.
They can manipulate animals a lot.
And so bunnies, horses, dogs, cats, they can, if you're cats, if you have animals, if you have dogs or cats and they act weird, are they looking at the corners?
This means they can feel your loved one's presence around.
Or if there's a strange stray cat that keeps coming up and coming up, I have a lady.
I had a client who had squirrels.
Her loved one would come through with squirrels all the time.
So just watch, squirrels, any kind of animal that is particular, it can be that constantly comes up or you constantly see.
I know sometimes I'll see bunnies for signs for my guides and owls.
And this is, I know that these are signs for my guides, not my loved ones.
But I do know that my dad uses moose.
But does he have to use a real moose every time?
No.
He can use those stickers that are on the back of cards when I'm having a bad day or he's used U-Haul before.
So just know that they can come through with any types of animals.
And if you want to create a language with a loved one's spirit or you want to say, "Okay, I want you to use this," they will do that.
I have lots of spirits come through as deer, herds, especially if people live in the forest or around a lot of trees.
So just know that your loved ones can come through as any kind of animal too.
And it's actually kind of beautiful.
It's kind of my favorite way.
Birds and feathers, huge, huge, huge ones, especially hawks and eagles that fly above you or when you're going to bed and you see a feather on your pillow or you wake up in the morning and there's a feather on the floor.
Now you can't go to the chicken coop and be like, "Oh, there's my loved one."
And have feathers be everywhere.
They have to be a significant place or they have to be not somewhere where there's a lot of feathers all over the place.
And you have to just kind of know, when you see these signs too, I want you to take note.
What exactly are you thinking at the time?
What is your thought process?
Are you thinking about that loved one?
Are you thinking about something in your life that you have to do or accomplish because is this how they're letting you know that they're with you?
Just kind of think of what you're thinking of.
So if there is a fly bugging you, bugging you, bugging you, what are you thinking?
Did you talk about that loved one a few days ago or is it just that there's a fly that continually bugs you?
You kind of see what you're thinking at the time or if there's been conversation about this past loved one, just kind of be aware of what's going on around you.
I just suggest that because I know that they're around you all the time and I know that they love you.
I'm 90% of the time I'm just like, it's them.
It's them because I love it.
I just love it.
Lights and electricity, they will play with a lot of electronics, especially kitchen appliances like microwaves, ovens, ice machines.
They will flicker lights and they will flicker lamps and they will play with your phones and TVs.
They'll turn off TVs and especially if you're like watching a certain movie or something that used to watch with the loved one a lot.
This is just their way of getting you attention.
Computers, phones, they'll call you on the phone sometimes.
I've had clients who got a phone call from their past loved one.
It said that they were, it was them calling them and the answer to no one was there.
I've had people even in some stories, I was just reading Dave Schrader's book and there was a call from the aunt that had passed away there.
She had made a phone call in the old days when there was no cell phones.
That's really a common thing too because they can play with the frequency.
They can play with that phone line.
They can do those things.
On your phone, they can bring up a video of them.
They can bring up a musical number that they liked.
They can have these things play on your phone.
Just watch that.
The next one is seeing someone that looks like them.
You're going down the street or you're in a crowd and you see someone who looks exactly like them and you have to take a double take.
That can be them too.
Isn't that crazy?
It's so crazy but it totally can be them.
You can feel like you've seen, you have to take a double take because you feel like you've that person or their mannerisms or when you meet somebody and they remind you of that person, this can be them.
They kind of divinely guide you.
Meeting that person on purpose or seeing that person.
This has happened to me with one of my aunts that's passed.
I would keep, oh, an uncle.
I would keep seeing this.
I would keep seeing people that look like them everywhere and I'd be like, "Oh, that's them trying to get my attention because family's harder to get my attention because I'm so busy with other spirits that are around."
People that look like them or remind you of them or have their mannerisms, this can be them coming through too.
It can be almost anything too.
One time I was thinking about my dad or talking to my dad.
I was walking around the river and then someone walked past me and he kind of looked like my dad and he had on his shirt, he had a Bingham mechanical shirt or something that said Bingham on it and my dad's, my maiden name is Bingham.
That's just some, they can come through in any type of way and those aren't coincidences.
They're not coincidences.
There's so many times we think that they are.
Numbers.
Numbers is huge.
Numbers is, my dad uses 777 because of his birthday and they can be Jersey numbers.
They can be birth dates.
They can be any type of number that acknowledges that person that they love.
If you listen to my podcast, you know that one of my clients that had passed comes through for his birthday with 226.
He reminds me all the time.
That's how he validates all the time that it's him.
Just remember numbers.
Numbers can also be from your guides, especially angel numbers like sequences, number sequences like 333-444-555.
We do a lot of those numbers on Carry Connects, but specific numbers for this person like Jersey numbers, though when they passed, what time they passed or what day they passed or birthdays, we can see all the time you can see the numbers on receipts or on license plates or any kind of that kind of thing.
Usually numbers, sequences are your guides, but other types of numbers can be spirits.
Spirits are your past loved ones that are on the other side.
Numbers are their favorite because they can actually communicate with numbers.
It's not like you're just seeing a feather.
They can actually, like 222 means you're going in the right direction. 333 means that they're with you. 777 means that they're cheering you on. 888 means that there's going to be abundance. 999 means there's new stuff coming.
Those are guided numbers, but they can also be from your past loved ones.
When you see the numbers, just see was I thinking about my past loved one or was this one from the guide?
Numbers that, like 777, it's a number sequence, but it's my dad and I know it's my dad's.
Rainbows are a big one.
They like to ring through rainbows because they can manipulate those.
Animals are full of hope and love, and so they will use rainbows.
Speaking of rainbows, and I'm going to go back to animals too.
They can use any animals.
They can use turtles.
They can also use whales.
I've had a client just recently came through that they used whales significantly and dolphins, things like that.
So not just land animals.
It can be the sea too.
Lots of spirits use turtles with oceans too to me because sea animals are so symbolic of spirit anyways.
The next one are pennies and dimes.
Any kind of coins.
Lots of people say pennies from heaven.
Now my grandmother does use pennies for me.
My grandmother that recently passed.
She does use pennies a lot for me.
And lots of people, lots of spirits will use dimes because they're easy to manipulate.
They're easy to move around and they're easy to divinely guide you to find them.
So if you're like, if you had a dream about one of your loved ones and you wake up and there's a dime on the floor, more than likely they're validating that that was them.
So pennies and dimes.
And sometimes it can be quarters.
I have, sometimes my dad will show me three quarters because he's with a couple of his brothers and he'll let me know that they're all three there.
Moving objects.
So they can move objects.
So like if you lose something of theirs or they can move their pictures, they can have shelves fall off the wall, pictures fall down.
They can do, and they're not trying to scare you.
They're just using their energy to try and manipulate those objects so you know, so they can get your attention.
So moving objects a lot, things that you can't find.
If you lose things, they can like all of a sudden show up or all of a sudden appear.
And so they will move objects quite a bit.
They like to play a lot with this, like with your glasses or keys or things like that.
They like to do that.
They don't want to reveal any type of jewelry.
They like to move objects around to get your attention.
Just sensing a presence.
Sensing their presence, getting goosebumps.
This is a lot, you can tell that they're around a lot by this stuff too.
You just kind of know or feel it.
And a lot of times this is followed by the pennies or the feathers or the animals to just validate that you really actually felt that.
Because sometimes when we feel it, we think we're crazy or we think that it's just dust or we're making it up.
And so sometimes they'd like to validate that it really was them.
Okay.
Oh, gifts.
This is my favorite.
So recently quite a bit, I've had lots of spirits come through and say, "I just sent you flowers."
And the receiver, this happened twice.
And the receiver would be like, "I got flowers, but not from them."
But they came out of the blue.
And spirit can tell, spirit can like whisper into somebody's ear to send you flowers.
Spirit can work through other humans or people on earth to let you know they're around.
So they can whisper, send somebody flowers, do something nice for this person.
And that person will be like, "Oh, I'm going to do this."
And it'll be from them.
Another time, I think I was, I said they're going to give you flowers on your birthday.
So I'm like, "Watch for flowers to grow in your yard or watch for flowers."
And he actually, I think, received free flowers from somebody like from a, it was crazy how it works, but they can do this.
They can divinely guide.
And so sometimes my dad, they can give gifts through other people or they can, they can say, "You're going to see this certain thing and I want you to buy it for yourself."
So they can bring through gifts.
They really can.
So this is kind of more, if you start to recognize it and believe it, because a lot of times you can write that off as just being coincidence.
You can hear their voice or this is like, their videos can come up on your phone or you can be in tinkerbell time, halfway can have a sleep and you can hear them call your name or you can, you think you can hear them or you can hear them playing music or you can hear them.
Lots of animals come through with you being able to hear them.
And so you can, this is a clair audience that they use and they can make it so you can kind of hear them.
You're on a different frequency.
Lots of times your ear ringing can let you know that they're around too.
So watch for, for different kind of hearing things.
Also too, they can touch you.
So lots of people have felt their loved ones' hands on their shoulders or in their hair or their, their, their hair will blow at night when they're sleeping or they can feel them next to them while they're sleeping.
They can actually feel them.
They think that they're crazy, but they can feel their hands.
So this is their hands on their shoulders or on their leg and this is actually kind of cool too.
So lots of times when you connect or when you're meditating, you can maybe feel somebody's hands on your shoulders.
This is them too.
Smells and fragrances.
So lots of times I will smell cigarette smoke for my dad.
Lots of people will smell perfumes for their grandmothers or their moms.
Different kinds of maybe lavender, lilacs are huge too.
They can, you can smell different things and no, no, I'm going to tell you honestly, this is the craziest thing and people are going to laugh.
I don't know if they're going to laugh or kind of get offended, but when I was, before I kind of, when I was LDS and I went through the temple and we were doing some work for my dad a long time ago, I actually smelled cigarette smoke in the temple and you can't smell cigarette smoke in the temple because you're not supposed to smoke.
So I knew he was there.
It was the craziest place to smell cigarette smoke and I knew he was doing it on purpose to have fun with me because the temple was supposed to be super sacred, but I smelled cigarette smokes because I knew he was there.
Now here's the thing.
Because I was there doing work for him, he was there to honor me because he knew even if it's not going to go into this big debate on whether it was true or not because honestly all my dad cared about is I was honoring him in some way and so he was there to show me that he loved me and show me that he cares.
Okay.
So if I were to be in the forest and which I have been in the forest and at Coffee Pot Cant Ground where I love, where I can still smell, I can smell, he'll have me smell cigarette smoke there too.
So just know that it's just because anything that you do to honor them or to let them know you love them, they will show up for you.
They will be there.
The next one, dreams.
They will use dreams and they will come in dreams, but just know that this takes them a lot of energy.
And if you haven't had a dream of your loved one, it's okay.
It's most likely because you're not clairvoyant and you mostly don't dream or you don't have visions.
You are more clairaudient or you're more claircentient or you can feel or hear them or you just kind of know that they're around, but they do come in dreams and a lot of times people get frustrated because when they come in dreams, sometimes they don't say anything and it's because they probably just passed over or and they talk in signs and symbols.
So if you do have a dream of your loved one and they're standing there, they're not saying anything, don't be offended.
It's because they can't, they're talking in signs and symbols.
See what's around them.
See what colors they're wearing because those signs and symbols can be meaningful or tell you what they want to say in signs and symbols.
And I would get a dream book and kind of see what some of those symbols mean.
Partial appearances.
So yes, they can appear to you.
This is very rare and it takes some lots of energy, but they can appear.
And in photos, I know people are like, some people are so skeptical with the photos, but I know when you take a photo and there's like orbs, like green orbs or red orbs or these are because there's, I know a lot of people like it's just the lighting.
It's just this, just like it's just the fly.
But I just know that a lot of those pictures and those orbs are actually your loved ones with you and guiding you.
I was on a trip in Sedona one time with a friend and every picture we took had a green orb in it.
And I know it was her grandfather that was there all the time letting her know that he was there with her.
So just remember, your loved ones do come through for you.
They are there.
They just can't.
They're at a different frequency that we are.
It's not like Hollywood.
They don't just show up and start talking to you.
I wish it was that easy.
But this is how they get your attention.
And once you start to acknowledge that they're there and you see these signs and symbols and you see these things that are happening and you kind of acknowledge and you say, okay, I know that's you, then it starts to get more and more and more and more.
And it's so awesome and it's going to be, it's kind of like a game.
So don't think that they're on the other side too busy for you.
Don't think that they don't have time.
Don't think that they're just over there starting a new life and you're not in it.
That's not true.
You're still very much a part of them.
They still very much love you and they're still with you all the time and as much as they can be.
Now, when they went on earth, they weren't with you all the time, right?
So again, in spirit, they're not going to be with you 100% all the time.
But if you're thinking about them and you need them and you want them to visit and you are connected to them in some way, then most of the time they're going to be with you about 90% of the time.
So I love you guys so much and I hope that that helps.
And I do have big, big things coming now.
So go to, you can go to, if you got my email or yeah, my email, I do have a spirit circle coming in March.
It's a photograph spirit circle.
It's for to bring your photographs and to have, I'll help you connect to your past loved ones.
You also have a night of spirits coming up where I'm going to start doing bigger groups of readings and that's going to be at my office or at my place in Spunky Spirit and you can buy tickets and we're going to have a group, lots of people come and these events, I'm going to start having more and more frequently and even get bigger and bigger.
I'm having a bigger one coming up in April or May.
That's going to be a bigger venue.
That's going to have more, lots of people.
So kind of watch for that.
And then my next one is I do have a spirit guide class coming up.
This one is in person, but I'm going to do this one, see how it goes and then I will do the next one online and how to meet and connect to your spirit guides and how to tell the difference between your guides and your loved ones and how to, all of that kind of stuff.
So, so watch for all that stuff.
I'm excited.
Good things are coming up.
I love you guys and I do have lots of interviews on this podcast set up starting, starting to come up to you that are awesome.
So, love you guys so much and remember the magic is already inside of you and I'll see you next week.
