Hello and welcome to this episode of Spunky Spirit. I am psychic medium Cari
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Mugs and this week we are going to talk about our spiritual journey. But first
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we're going to do a little bit of housekeeping. I do have an event coming
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up in July but it's already sold out so I'm going to create another event and
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these events are platform events so gallery events. I'll get up and I'll do
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readings. Right now I'm doing just this in person. I guess I could try one online
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but right now I'm doing in person ones but I could try one online. So watch
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watch for my newsletters to see if I'm going to do one online because I might
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do one online. And also to you I have a manifesting class coming up. This one is
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in person this manifesting workshop and this one's been so fun. I loved the
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spirit guides one and I love stepping into your power but I'm this one is one
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of my favorite manifesting. I love anything about manifesting. I used
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to tell people the manifesting wasn't my strongest gift but I am like bound. I'm
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one of those people that is like bound and determined to like figure it out.
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Like I like puzzle pieces. That's why I like reading so much because I'm like I
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want to figure this out. I want to like figure figure it out. So manifesting I'm
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going to start kind of figuring it out and I want you to come along with me on
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this manifesting journey because I'm going to do it. I'm going to get aligned
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and do it. And so manifesting everything that I've learned about manifesting and
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I pretty much manifested a pretty good spiritual business and abundance and
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things that I want. I don't I'm not super picky and I'm not super like you know
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yeah I don't need a whole bunch but I'm pretty simple but it's been kind of a
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cool journey. So speaking of journeys I think that's about it for housekeeping.
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I kept it I kept the events kind of low this month because one of my daughters
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is getting married and also too I have a son who they're having they're expecting
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and this is all happening at the same time. And the baby does have a little bit
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I think she's told everybody so I think it's okay. Has a heart a heart thing
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that's going on that they're going to have to watch. Everything's okay. The
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baby's okay as long as the baby's inside the womb but as soon as the baby's born
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they're gonna need to like do some sort of heart surgery and anyways I'm gonna
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let them share if they want to share that part but the reason why I'm telling
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you is because June and July this summer is gonna be pretty big pretty crazy
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because I am going to be doing events and readings and adding some more stuff on
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top of that but also too family-wise I have a wedding coming up in August and
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a baby a baby that needs lots of attention coming up in August too. So
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so here we go it's gonna be fun right and speaking of all of this stuff it
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kind of leads us to our own spiritual journeys right our own spiritual journeys
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and I kind of really don't know what to say on this it's just because I mean I
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I know what to say I just it's not planned out because everybody's journey
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is different and in this world we come we sometimes think that they all have to
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be the same or we have to be like somebody else especially in this world
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of social media we follow people we follow influencers we follow Hollywood we
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follow people and we follow them because they make a sloth or because they have
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something we want or we want to be like them but we have to realize that
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sometimes this can hurt our own journey because it takes away our
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authenticity it takes away who we are I notice that if I get too involved in
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following other mediums or other businesses or other people even and I get
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too involved in I get to if I get too wrapped up in oh I need to be like that
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they're doing this so I need to do this they're doing it causes me so much
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anxiety because I think that I think I have to be like that and I do remember
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when I was doing this with some of my you know other businesses like when I was
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doing some Beachbody coaching I compared myself to others other coaches
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because I thought I had to be like that or I had to be like this and I find
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myself when I do it with mediumship I get wrapped up in what I'm supposed to be
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like and what my readings are supposed to look like and and I did a reading last
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Friday that was amazing to me and it was my own it was my own turn on things I
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didn't I didn't want to copy anybody I don't want to try copying it's like they
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say it's like the best form of flattery but at the same time it's like do your
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own stuff right like in and all these mediums like have this thing and I'm
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not saying it's bad because it's totally good like that's how they but you kind of
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like do the platform readings do the galleries do the classes do all that
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stuff and so I kind of think well that's what I'm supposed to do next right or
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they go into paranormal or they go into and sometimes that's not what I that's
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not the season for what I'm supposed to do right now right now it's okay to be
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simple and just do readings or if I want to do a gallery reading every once in a
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while I can it doesn't mean I have to do it consistently and if I want to do
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something else I can or I could do something completely different I can do
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something completely different than any other medium and I could thrive on that
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right because we get so wrapped up in like take what you want to be and you
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feel like you have to do what it what others are doing and it's okay to have
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mentors and it's okay to look at people and say okay do I want that or do I
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want do I not want that my problem is is sometimes I look at people think okay
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that's my next move that's what I'm supposed to do when in reality my journey
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is my own I get to create whatever the hell I want to do right and same with
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you your journey is your own I remember when I went to I spent a lot of money on
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a class and I was like they were like okay this is how you're supposed to do
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your readings you this way in this way and I'm like that's not how I do mine and
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I don't want to do mine that way that seems so organized it seems so it doesn't
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seem to come from the heart it seems like a check-off list and I don't want to do
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it like that and so I do my own way and I must be doing something right right
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because and I'm not like here to to my own horn I'm just telling you that you
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are your own person and your spiritual journey is your own and you follow your
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own compass and it's good to like kind of set you know have mentors and see what
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it is that maybe you want to be like in your business or even in your own like
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life like even if it's being a mom for a long time that's what my journey
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consisted of is being a mom nothing else didn't work didn't do anything else I
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just was a mom and that was my purpose for that time we all have more than one
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purpose and I think we get really caught up on having our purpose be
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extraordinary or life-changing or and it's life-changing for us right but it
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doesn't have to be life-changing for other people well it is for if you're a
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mom you're already life-changing you are already like changing other people's
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lives that are around you without even really knowing it knowing it I think
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what happens is we get caught up in that we have to stand out or we have to like
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be different that we do have to be different but like we have to stand
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out or we have to be the best or we have to you know I'm not even really sure but
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if you're anything like me I always wanted straight A's I have to like I
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don't have to be the best but I always wanted to be good really good and and
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that's okay but sometimes we put really hard expectations on ourselves and we
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put really sometimes just being us is the best right just being who we are is
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the best and just being where we are in this moment is the best and right now
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you could be in a really awesome moment where you're on top of the world and
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things are great and right now you could be at a bottom of the bottom moment and
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things seem really really hard and I'm going to tell you something about right
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now this is going to pass every moment passes we're like water and no water in
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a river is always at the is ever in again at the same place right we're always
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flowing always changing always turning corners and whether you're on top of the
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top or in the middle or at the bottom this will pass because we're always
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growing and we're always learning and we're always if if we're comfortable and
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you're pretty stagnant and you've been in the same place for years and years
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then there's no growth in that I'm not saying that's a bad thing you could
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decide that that's what you want in this lifetime you just want to be
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comfortable and easy peasy and you just want to write it out and that's totally
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fine too but sometimes there's always some sort of like loss or grief or
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trauma or something that that rocks your world and it can be a good thing or a
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bad thing and every one of us has to go through it in this spiritual journey
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right all of us the one thing I want you to know though is your path is
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individual your journey is individual it's not supposed to be like somebody
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else's and your kids is journey is not supposed to be like yours and your
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journey is not supposed to be like your parents and your journey isn't supposed
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to be like every other mom out there it's so hard for me when and I do this so
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it's that's why it's so hard but when we compare ourselves to like other moms
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other parents other employees other you know other people we just compare
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ourselves all the time and when reality we're just doing the best we can on this
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spiritual journey we're not supposed to be the same we're like snowflakes we're
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all different and we've got to find the beauty in that we've got to find the
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beauty in not trying to be the norm and not trying to be like everybody else and
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doing it like everybody else because when how are you gonna stand out if
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you're like everybody else like the beauty is not being like everybody else
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and your spiritual journey isn't supposed to be like everybody else's
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which is fine right because I have friends who want their spiritual journey
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to be all about the ocean all about like let's say you're taking a tour and
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you're on a trail I have lots of friends who want their spiritual journey to be
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on a beach and just walking by the ocean I want my spiritual journey to be in
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the mountains in the woods in in a cabin in you know and that's just the scenery
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right like I want my spiritual journey to be different than somebody else's but
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for a long time I thought I had to be similar I thought if I wanted to be like
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everybody else or if I wanted to be as good as this person or if I wanted to be
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as pretty as this girl if I wanted to be you know how many times in your
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lifetime have you like tried to be like somebody else because of a
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relationship like you think that like your boyfriend broke up with you in
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high school to date somebody else and then you wanted to be like that person
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or you start a business and you pattern your business after another company and
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you want it to be as successful as that which is great but you are your own
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individual person and if you are starting a business you just need to align with
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that and what I would find sometimes is you know I didn't really start out being
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a medium wanting to start a business I just wanted to help people and do
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readings and it just went from one thing to another and it led into a business and
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I'm not great at the business part I'm not gonna lie I like to do you know the
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readings and sometimes I do like the business part it just depends on what
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kind of phase I'm in when I'm on my journey and sometimes I just like to
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stand back and be with my family and every you know I start the year with
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all these great intentions and all these things and all this like this is how
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it's gonna be but then the year continues and things happen and you it
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changes you have plans and you have all these great plans which is great
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because that's great for manifesting you want to plan it out you want to build
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the path you want to start the GPS on your journey or on this compass course
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but sometimes you get thrown off the path right and that's not by it's not by
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coincidence it's not by accident sometimes I think it's so funny because I sit
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and I I plan and I do all this stuff for my life for my family life for my
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business life for my personal life and then sometimes spirit comes in and says
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this is great oh my gosh but we're gonna change it up in here and then I get
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sidetracked and then I get it just changes but you know what when I realize
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that I need to be in the now and I need to be focused on the now then the journey
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is better the journey is I I have to not be so focused on the outcome of the
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journey I can know what my goals are and I can know what what I want the outcome
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to be but sometimes spirit has a different vision right and sometimes we
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follow that and it's okay it's okay to be like I'm gonna go down this path and
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then you see another path you're like oh wait this path looks fun too so I'm gonna
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try this one it's okay if that's what we're here on this spiritual journey to
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do is to experience experience these things and we can't experience different
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things if we're so much into wanting to be like somebody else and so that's what
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I kind of did this year I kind of like I looked at my business and I thought okay
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my next move is this because this is what they're doing and so this is what I
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need to do and what happened is I was just doing what I was thinking I was
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supposed to do and I got super depressed and I got out of alignment and I lost my
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authenticity for a minute and when I realized that that wasn't my journey and
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I needed to do what I wanted to do and what I thought was authentic and at the
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end of the day it didn't matter what anybody else did it didn't matter what
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other mediums did it didn't matter what other spiritual intuitives did it's what
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I wanted to do is what's important and so sometimes we get caught in that and
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you know I probably will again I'll probably get on this thing about oh I
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gotta do better I gotta do I gotta get a reason so I gotta do what everybody else
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is doing and instead of taking a step back and thinking this is what's
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important and Friday you know last week I did I was this has been a may was a
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crazy crazy crazy month with mental health and it's so crazy because it's
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mental health month right it was mental health month and all this stuff our
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community went through lots of stuff and mental health wise and and when you
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think you're not above it but when you think oh I'm good I got this then
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something comes and knocks you flat on your butt and you realize I don't got
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this all the time and I don't you know always know what I'm doing I can think
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I know what I'm doing but sometimes I lose you lose your your vision or your
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alignment or or the path you get off the path for a minute you see this beautiful
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flower while you're on your path and you go get it and sometimes it's hard to get
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back on the path so I always check in and see what makes you happy on this
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journey and what makes you brings you joy because if you're just doing things
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because that's what everybody else is doing and you're just doing things
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because you see it on social media that you're supposed to do it that way
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you're supposed to think a certain way you're supposed to think this way
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because everybody on social media tells you you're supposed to you're supposed
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to run your business this way because everybody on social media tells you
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you're supposed to social media is great but at the same time it can be so
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damaging to your authenticity and it can be so damaging to your own self so if
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you are struggling with being aligned or being authentic I suggest you take a
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social media break and if you get triggered by things that you see on
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social media block it for a little bit it doesn't mean you don't like them it
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just means that you got to watch out for your own mental health and your own
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mental capacity and if they don't understand then that's it's not your
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problem really it's not it's that you got to live on your path and you'll be
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your own authentic self and be you and I preach and preach and preach this all
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the time and then I find myself falling off the path and falling out of
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alignment and falling out of the you know the because if if the world had it
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its way I would be doing multiple galleries all the time gallery readings
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I would be doing multiple classes constantly I would be doing plus the
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three readings a day that I do and that's just not doable it's not doable
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when when you have other other priorities like a big family and you just do
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the best you can right like and I see some people that are like so hustle
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hustle to make your business run or so like this is how you know and it's
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just really hard because you've got to only go at the speed that you can go and
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I am talking a lot as you can probably tell for me it's probably it is business
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associated with this because but my business and me are so much a part of
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each other and I think maybe that's the mistake that I made is that I made the
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business what I do so much a part of me because it's such a spiritual thing to
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that it is who I am and it is where I built my self-worth and it is where and
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maybe you work falling into that too and maybe you don't because there's a lot of
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people out there that can keep their jobs and their personal life separate and I
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love that because that's something I didn't that I that I'm learning how to
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do because my job is such a spiritual thing and I feel like sometimes it's
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part of my spiritual growth and I connect my business to who I am and my
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spiritual well-being where there's lots of people out there that can just do
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spiritual growth and not have to worry about it their business right have it
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and being involved in their business where I feel like my business or my
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growth my spiritual growth depends on each other and it doesn't and so I'm
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kind of getting way off track so if you're out there and you're a spiritual
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entrepreneur this probably resonates with you if you are not kind of good for
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you good for you that you can't keep it separate right good for you but also to
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your spiritual growth has to do with your journey and how you grow and how you
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who you want to become and we want we think we watch the people of who we
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want to be if we want to be like somebody we watch we see influencers or we
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see things on social media and we want that or we want to become that well
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sometimes it's just a good idea to turn it off and be who we want to be without
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that I was thinking and I'm not down I'm not I'm not like social media is a
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great thing but not at the expense of your mental health right like not when
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you're and maybe some of you out there are just like I don't know what she's
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talking about I have no clue because I don't compare myself to others good for
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you dude good for you I'm see you've got teach me you need to start a business
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teaching classes on how how people can do that and a lot of it has to do with
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confidence and but every single one of us out there I don't care how confident
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you are has been times when you've been scared and has been and it has been
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fearful so I guess what I'm trying to tell you is honor your journey and honor
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your uniqueness and honor your individuality because being normal is
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not I mean being I don't even know what normal is right but being like other
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people is kind of not courageous I mean how do I want to say that being
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different and being you is being brave that's being brave even if it doesn't
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fit with the majority you don't have to think or do the way others do because
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they do it and I tell this story all the time about the pan about the newlyweds
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that got married and they were she was cooking a ham and she cut the ham in
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half and he said why do you're doing that she's like I don't know that's what
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my mom did and so should they go to the mom and they're like why did you do that
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she said I don't know I cut the ham in half because my mom did and they go to
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grandma and they say why did you do that she said because it didn't fit in the
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pan so be different put the whole ham in the damn pan fit your whole ham in
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there do it have fun and be fun and don't take it so serious because yes
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there is growth and there is grief and there is loss and there is there is
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struggle and but there's happiness and joy and be the one that wants to create
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the fun I write down in my journal every day I create fun and I create joy even
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days that I think that I can't so stand up and be your own damn self be the whole
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damn ham just do it do it and have fun doing it and don't care there's that I
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don't know I if you guys know I love the show I don't even know the name of it
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now isn't that funny the witches the no I keep saying hope floats because I have
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Sandra bullocken it but it's not it's practical magic my favorite I watch it
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every every Halloween and the ants the ants are site they say this quote that
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I post on my social media quite a bit that being being normal is kind of not
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being who you are I don't even know I don't even know exactly what does I
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need to look for it but it's just kind of it's just kind of not sorry I'm like
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looking at my tech my phone as I'm recording because my husband's texting
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me just be you be individually be yourself and love it love who you are
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you don't have to be like anybody else you don't have to be like anybody else
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on social media just love who you are and enjoy your spiritual journey and put
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your compass you can put it north-south-east or west you don't always
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have to go north make your own compass don't follow somebody else's because
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that's what you think you have to do create your own compass this is your
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own spiritual journey with your own guides your own ancestors your own
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stuff this is what you created your own blueprint your blueprint is different
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than everybody else's so you created this spiritual journey now you need to
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honor it and the way you honor it is you be authentic to who you are and you do
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you you be you and you fulfill yourself with joy and love and just know that I
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know it's hard sometimes and it sounds easier than it is but you know what you
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guys it's so worth it and it's hard it's hard to get there because we so much
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want to be like everybody else we so much want to be like the collective but
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we need to stand out and be ourselves because the world needs you the world
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needs your own magic the world needs what you brought here and you can't do
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that if it's like everybody else's so I love you guys so much I hope this help
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and please I have like lots of interviews coming up because I'm setting
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them all up it's gonna be cool one's gonna be about a Kaushik Records I'm
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even gonna have my husband on and we're gonna have a special guest about grief
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coming up so stay tuned and know that this is gonna be good this is gonna be
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good because this is what I love I want you to know who you are and I want you
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to know who you worth is and I want to be here every week telling you and
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reminding you that you have everything that you need inside of you I love you
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guys so much I mean it and I'll talk to you next week
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