Hello and welcome to this week's Spunky Spirit episode. I am your host, psychic
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medium Carrie Mugs and this week we are going to talk about mediumship myths or
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yeah myths of mediumships like things that people are told or things that
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people might think about mediums that aren't entirely true or could be true
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for some. So you have to excuse my voice because I'm just getting over a cold I
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had to rearrange some some some readings last week and so I'm in that part
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where the phlegm gets like stuck and so please be patient with me if I sound off
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or if it sounds weird. So okay so today I noticed that they're the last couple of
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months that there's some myths about mediumship. There are lots of mediums on
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the internet and each of them we're all different right? We all have our different
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things and I am so good at that because it's cool because I don't want us to be
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all the same. We don't need to be all the same but in the past there's been like a
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certain set of rules for that in general every medium follows but I think some of
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those are starting to change and I kind of wanted to touch on some of the
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mediumship myths that have been going around. The one thing that's really hard
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for me is when other mediums tell mediums how they should do it or how they
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should do readings or how it should be because there's a lot of things that
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play here. When you're a medium for starting out and you don't know some of
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this stuff you can make some of those mistakes so when mediums get on and
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call out other mediums and say you shouldn't be doing this and you shouldn't
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be doing that I think that's hard because that can make the new medium feel
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inadequate when reality that they don't know. So just give medium this is I
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guess also to you know give mediums some grace and I am trying to give some
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mediums some grace because there are some mediums that I it's so hard because I
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want to they just are so some of them are very very confident which I love I
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wish I had some of that confident but some of them are so cocky and so I it's
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just hard for me to you know if you if there's a medium that you're following
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that just doesn't resonate with you just just I mean block it or unfollow you
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don't have to block because no nobody is perfect for everybody right so if
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there's a that if there's something that doesn't resonate with you unfollow
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that's all you have to do is to get all angry and all upset but and sometimes I
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don't get angry upset I just think you know give some people some grace here
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give some people some especially new mediums who don't know some of this stuff
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because I am here to tell you and you know and here's another thing too another
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medium out there could disagree with this and that is fine the thing that I'm
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going to do is stand in what I believe and stand in my truth and I've been
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doing this for over I think gosh I'm coming up on 20 years and 20 years of
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readings and doing medium shift work and I've been to lots of courses lots of
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continued education to help me with my readings lots of retreats I've held lots
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of courses in and had retreat so I kind of know a little bit about what's going
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on so I'm just gonna give you my opinion though and I'm also gonna tell you that
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this can change because spirit 10 years from now my my opinion could change
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because spirit is not like a doctor doing heart procedures or a doctor doing
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leg stuff with your feet you know a pediatric doctor and no the pediatrics
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is kids this stuff changes we never know the truth 100% all the time and so this
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is something that it's not in a box it doesn't fit neatly in the box it fits
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there's so much of a big scope and there's so much to it that there can be
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many many answers to it because we don't know all the answers on earth so I'm
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I'm gonna tell you this no reading ever is 100% accurate so give your medium
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some grace because they're just trying to get information right it's like
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sitting at a table at a restaurant with all your of your family and the medium
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has to determine who's who and if all your family's talking at once we have to
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figure out what they're saying we have to put puzzle pieces together so give
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your medium some grace gone are the days where it's like yes no yes no yes no
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answers because honestly if you want to get the best out of your reading you
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shouldn't have to give the medium any kind of information but when information
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does come through if you were to be okay if I were to say your grandfather's here
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and he's showing me a train and you would be like yep okay so but if and I could
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still be like okay what were the trains for did you work with trains did you have
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toy trains he says they were model trains yep okay but if you go into a
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mediumship reading and you said I said I said he's showing you trains he loved
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them he loved trains then I could be like okay why did you love trains did you
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play with did you have toy model trains did you did you and then I would see the
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toy model trains and maybe I would see them around the room and I would be like
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he had model trains around the room and you would say yes and and I'd be like
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why did he love trains and then I would go deeper into that but if you just sit
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there and say yes no yes no the medium still can go deeper but if you want to
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enjoy the reading and get the best feeling out of it to explain a little
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bit you don't have to give a bunch of details you don't have to be like yes
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he was an engineer he drew he drove he worked at the train tracks from 1950 to
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1952 and he was this and this you don't have to give all the details and you
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don't have to be like yes he loved toy toy trains he had tons of models they
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were all over his room you don't have to do that stuff but honestly the yes or
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no things that's kind of it it's just gonna intimidate or it's just gonna
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make the medium feel like more like hold the frequency more if you're more open
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or you're more open to receiving because you have to remember the medium is just
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getting bits and tiny pieces of a big puzzle that they're trying to put
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together and sometimes they can mess up they can I've had lots of I think Tony
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Stockwell has always said you're only as good as your last reading right so
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there's good readings and there's bad and bad readings and some of the ones that I
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consider bad for me may not be bad for the sitter because I know I'm supposed
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to be to certain frequency and I get frustrated that I didn't get more
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information in but to the sitter they got exactly what they needed right so
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never doubt spirit never doubt spirit and honestly if you're in a reading and
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you're in it to 10 or 15 minutes and it's not nothing's resonating with you
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be honest just be like you know this really isn't working and and you can
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either you know decide with the medium what they say but but you can most
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mediums if you get into it 10 or 15 minutes and they're like they can kind
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of tell on their own that it's not working and they might be like hey you
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know what you might want to reschedule for a time that maybe I can I can kind of
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commit better or I can kind of have a higher frequency yeah just kind of read
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your reading if it's not but don't expect the medium to come through with like
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specific specific stuff like your son comes through he was two years old he
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had blue hair blah blah I'm not stuff's okay but you have to be open because some
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mediums will come through with that stuff and some mediums will come through
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with like I'm seeing blue eyes I'm seeing blonde hair it's not going to be
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dead it up to dead to death it's going to be little bits and pieces of a puzzle
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that you're both trying to put together so it's your job to try and put
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together the pieces right or the medium put together the pieces but if you know
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like one time if I there's some readings that are like there's somebody with the
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name I think John or John they're like nope and then two or three minutes down
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the road we're like I'm like there's John a names coming up no I have a I have a
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daughter whose name is Johanna but not John John that is too that's too hard you
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guys be kind give some medium give the grace give the medium some grace that's
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how it comes through for them that's how they hear it so don't be so straight
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and narrow or rigid that you can't be flexible right now one of the myths is
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that you have to wait six months to after a loved one's past you have to wait six
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months before you can book a reading it depends on the medium that's not true
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for everybody that's not true for me now my schedule is booked out six to eight
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months so that's how it would work unless you get one of my express readings
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which you can get in within the month or if you get a group reading but you can
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get in within the month but if you are getting your own reading and somebody
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passes some mediums want you to wait six to eight months not because they can't
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it used to be thought that they couldn't communicate with your loved one that's
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not true lots of mediums are finding out that they can connect to their loved
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ones you can connect to their loved ones immediately so I'll have somebody who
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will schedule an appointment eight months out and two weeks before they come or
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one week before they come one of their one of their loved ones pass and I
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still can connect to that person that loved one so that's not entirely true I
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think what happens is sometimes the mediums they're so when you go to a
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reading it takes the medium the spirit and the sitter to hold a certain
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frequency so you're all holding a frequency to connect to your loved one
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right if you're in a huge amount of grief and you're mad and you're holding
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in your anger stage or you're in the depression stage it can be a little
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harder for you to hold up that that end of the frequency but a lot of times the
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spirit and the medium can hold up that frequency for you so if you feel like you
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want to see a medium beforehand I would just check with the medium and see if
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you can schedule before the six months thing with me you can schedule at any
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time it's it doesn't if you want to schedule I'm in any time I don't have to
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you don't have to wait six months because there I've been in readings where
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the people have passed within a week or even a day or two and and that grief I
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can hold that grief and the spirit can hold that grief and and or I've just
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been really blessed with the sitters who can who can hold their frequency that
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high so for me it's not a problem but you might want to check and that doesn't
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mean I'm better than other mediums it just means that they they run different
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they just run differently and they they connect differently so so just check
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with that medium and see if that's something that is something that they
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do the next one is do I always am I always connected because sometimes people
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are scared to me when I go to different places around town or they don't want to
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talk to me because they think I can see there are people right there I used to
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when I was younger and I didn't know how to control my gifts now it's I know how
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to work it I know how to control it so their frequencies here ours is here
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during your reading they lower theirs and I raise mine I am not in that high of a
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frequency 24/7 once the reading is over we change we go back I just connect and
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we go back so I am not in that high of frequency all the time I go home
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immediately and I ground I go eat something or I use my grounding mat or I
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watch a stupid sitcom most of the time like Big Bang Theory or Modern Family
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so I'm not walking around the store being constantly in that in that frequency
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right but sometimes if sometimes if your spirits don't know boundaries if I'm
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just walking around in my normal frequency they can lower their frequency
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enough to get to me or enough to to talk to me and some spirits can be
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aggressive enough to do that but I kind of hold some boundaries that don't let
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them but sometimes they will still get through and that's okay so but sometimes
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I'll just kind of ignore them because it's my I'm not in a reading I'm getting
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to the point now where the spirits that come to me know that the time is during
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the reading when my when I did readings in my house they would be my office in
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my house was across the hall from my bedroom and they would be in my bedroom
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a lot my bedroom was like freezing all the time my husband would be like we
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got to get you an office because they would be there waiting now that I have
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my own office I can feel the spirits when I walk in and then that morning and
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I'm just like hi everybody it's gonna be a great day they're gonna set that
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intention so because sometimes the spirits come a little couple come a
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little early because their time their time is off like their their time
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frequency that they or they're just so excited right so just know that that my
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energy is not always on I can't always tap into something 24/10 but I will tell
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you this in some of my courses in some of my readings in some of my courses that
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I've taken in the past they have said you shouldn't do readings for friends or
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family so for a long time I didn't and I had a family locally and I've talked
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about them before so I'm sure that they won't care the Olsen's they lost hit
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their son came and got a reading from me and then two weeks later he passed in an
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automobile accident and they came and got readings for me and at first it was
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great but I kept getting nervous that if they kept getting more readings for me I
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wouldn't have any new evidence to come through or I wouldn't be able to do the
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readings because they started to become my good friends and because of this I
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would not really be friends with my clients because I wouldn't want to be
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like I wouldn't want to take the readings or have I want to always want new
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information right and if I was friends with my clients then I would new
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information wouldn't come through this was not true Ryan showed me that I can do
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he can bring new new information in all the time he can bring me in information
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of what they've done that day he can bring me information of what's going on in
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their lives how he's playing a part in it what he's doing now who they've talked
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to what's going on he can bring in all of those specifics so now I don't worry
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about giving readings to friends and family because because I know that the
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spirits that come through sent them to me and they will give me the specific
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specifics I need and the messages that their family needs to hear and I did
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readings if you haven't you know if you follow me you've already heard this
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story but I did readings for my family I did little yearly readings for my family
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and it came through in one of one of my daughter's readings that she was going
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to get engaged and the fiance was like nope no way no way then he came back
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two days later and said I've had this planned forever and you almost ruined
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it and I also had that night did a reading for my daughter-in-law and it
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came through that she was pregnant and she's like nope not pregnant she went
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home took friends he says she was pregnant so I can give readings to my
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family and my friends some now can I it taint it because I'm their mom sometimes
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yes I have to be really careful but some mediums are like you can't do that and
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I'm like yes you can so just depends on the medium just depends on the medium
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right so now I am do and I do create relationships with my clients because I
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used to like really be office about making friendships with my clients and
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now I totally love my clients and have very many clients that are my friends
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because I know that when they come new information will come through and new
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stuff that they need will come through so it's actually really kind of cool see
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so even as a medium you learn things you can go to classes and learn these
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things but honestly it's it's a trial and error thing and it's a lot of stuff
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that you just learn along the way so we already talked about the yes or no
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answers be open if it's it's okay to be a skepticism but if you do not believe in
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it and you're a cynic and you are going to prove the medium wrong just don't go
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just don't go because more than likely the mediums just going to be like you're
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out if I had somebody sitting across from me and they were like this and
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everything I said they were like no no no no no I'd be like we're done we're done
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here because I have those boundaries right and if you're just trying to come
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prove me wrong I don't need you here and so you're out and that's I mean I know
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that sounds terrible but it's true skeptics are different cuz skeptics can
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be moved such skeptics something you come through and they can be like huh
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this is different but cynics or yeah they're out done that you can't the ones
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the one where you can't change their mind I'm not here to try and change your mind
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I'm here to help people connect to their loved ones to have closure and to have
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healing if that's not what's happening I'm done okay now the next one too is I
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read somewhere a medium had said that she asks for I think she asks for names
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during readings because she doesn't want bad spirits to come through which is
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totally fine but I want you to know that if you go to a medium and they don't
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ask for names it doesn't mean bad spirits are coming through it does not
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mean that it means that that medium can connect without asking in it for a name
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that medium can connect and and connect to your loved ones without asking for a
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name some mediums go in and they like to ask for a name and some mediums like I
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like to ask what your intentions are at the beginning what your intentions are
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for the reading I say without telling me any information or who's on the other
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side what do you want to get out of this reading do you want to talk to
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communicate to you at the other side or do you want to get something for what
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you want to know about something in your life your career your family your
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love life and if they say both I say great hybrids are my favorite because
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most of the time your loved ones come in and they give me information about you
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and tell you how they're watching over you and they give you guidance and that's
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interesting too guidance your ancestors and guides can come through and guide
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you but they cannot make decisions for you so if there's somebody if there's
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somebody coming through telling you you need to do certain things you have your
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free agency you have your free will you get to decide okay so now that specific
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medium I I kind of think led to I can't remember what I think it led to you
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she asked for their names because if she doesn't think she thinks they're bad
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that is not true either that could be what she was taught that could be what
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she's is experiencing but that's not my experience my experience is you shouldn't
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have to ask the a medium you don't have to give any information to a medium at
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all but I do know that some mediums like to have a little bit of like the name of
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your ancestor and I will so because of time constraints not because I can't
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connect but if I if a whole bunch of people come through the reigning and
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we're at 10 minutes before and I say okay if there's somebody that hasn't come
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through that you want to talk to you you can say their name 10 and most of time I
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can connect sometimes I can't I don't do that because I can't connect I do that
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because there's somebody specific that they want to talk to you and other
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people are keep coming through and and I'm picking up the other because I have
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no I have no control over who's coming through so if they have a great
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grandfather that they want to talk to you but their little childhood friend is
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coming through first then I talk to the childhood friend who is ever the loudest
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so if they say their name I can connect to that name and to that frequency same
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with like if you listen to your loved one's voice or your music or you you
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connect into their frequency and so that's what that's probably what that
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medium is doing is just trying to connect to their frequency and it doesn't
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make it bad because if all you give her if all you give that medium is a name
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and they can come up with other details it's good it's good right like it's
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great but I know some mediums are just like no you tell them absolutely nothing
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and that's fine too that's it's just how you choose to work with your medium okay
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it's all about you and what you want to do and what you how you want to
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experience it I did have a friend of mine when we went to Sedona and she went
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and got a reading and the lady was the reader was like who do you want to
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connect to today and she was kind of frustrated that she had to say that to
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say I want to connect my grandpa but that's just how some mediums work right
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they just have to have that connection because one of the hardest things to do
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as a medium when a spirit comes through is to figure out how they're related or
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how they are so sometimes I'll be like a mother type figure mother like close so
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it's just it just is and it just kind of defeats that that medium is just kind of
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getting past that bar so she can go straight into details so don't give up
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if your medium does ask you for a name of the person or a relationship just
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continue see if more specifics come through now if they do that and other
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specifics are coming through as well consider the personality of the person
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if the person was a super shy person on earth and didn't talk much that's how
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they're going to be with your medium so be be aware of that that your your
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people are going to have the same personalities okay the next one is just
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remember there is no set way there is no set way for any reading to go down and
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I was taught you know when I took because I had the gift and I wanted to like
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figure out what the signs and symbols meant and I was wanting to like organize
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what what was coming through so I did take some classes and some of them are
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great and some of them are like this is how you do it you do this first then
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this first and then this comes through and I was like that is not how I do it
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that's not how I do it I don't do mediumship first and then I do psychic I
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my people come through and then they tell me all about you and tell me what's
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going on in your life it's combined it's like a hybrid for me so I didn't
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change the way I did it because that's what my teacher said I just decided I'm
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gonna do it my way every medium is gonna be different they're gonna do it their
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way in the olden days when you would go to a mediumship demonstration the spirits
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would come through and they would move tables they would move they would knock
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on the walls and with the fox sisters that's the very first thing that came
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through is they wouldn't the spirits would knock on the walls and they would
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like test these girls all the time and see if there's any knocking or any noises
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with their knees their knees or their body parts and all of that stuff too and
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then table raising the mediums would table raise and then they would have
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say ounces and there would be ectoplasm that was a long time ago and now then it
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kind of got to where that the evidence was the day they died or what they looked
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like or how many kids or you know evidence was like that but nowadays with
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the internet you can find that information out pretty easily and so now
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the information has kind of changed to like their personality because you don't
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know that you can't you can't research that their details about what's going on
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in your life details about what's going what went on in their life like details
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nobody would know those are the things that that come through now and birthdays
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and stuff are great especially like because like if it's like the sitters
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birthday there's no way that the mediums gonna know that the medium might know if
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that if they researched it and looked at some sort of paper or article or
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whatever they could find that stuff out so so nowadays what some older mediums
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would consider psychic is actually evidence so like if what I mean by
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psychic is when people read people and mediumship is when you connect to the
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other side so a lot of times people will spirits will come through and say
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she's having a baby and it's going to be a girl well a lot of mediums are like
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well that's psychic you're tuning into that psychically well no you're not not
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if the spirit is telling you that the spirits telling me that a baby is coming
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he's sending down a baby and it's going to be a girl that's different and those
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are the type of things that people want to hear because that lets them know that
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their loved one in spirit is still with them without any doubt so just that's I
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just kind of wanted to dispel some of the mediums because there are mediums out
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there and I try not to because everybody's different but there are
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mediums out there telling other mediums how it works and I get that I do
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because there are some mediums out there that are not that don't have integrity
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and that are trying to just make money and not try and heal people or just
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trying to show how great they are how good they are at it and I don't love
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that and so I get it when other mediums try and call them out and say things like
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mediums shouldn't do this and mediums shouldn't do that to like warn you know
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the sitters or the audience but at the same time sometimes they just don't know
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sometimes these mediums are just starting out and they don't know that
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they're not supposed to do that or that's not the ethical way to do it I
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remember when I first started going through all my stuff and I did a drive
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by reading I went up to a lady and said it this is so-and-so so-and-so's here and
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it was all accurate and it worked out at the end okay but it was it was hard
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because she wasn't ready for it I just went up to her and was like I think
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there's something there's someone around you blah blah blah because that's how
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I saw what on Teresa Caputo and and so that's what I did and it's not really
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ethical it's not it's not really ethical and so because that person might not
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be ready for a reading and I remember losing so much sleep over that and
00:26:08,760 --> 00:26:13,000
learning my lesson the hard way and you know back then if I would have been on
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the internet and another medium would be like you're not supposed to do this it
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would have devastated me and I probably would have stopped so just be kind and
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be careful and when you do get information from other mediums just
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takes what resonates with you and just know there are no rules there's no
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rules on how this work none because it is spirit you're dealing with and it's
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it's it's it's spirit and it's not set in stone in ten years from now I could be
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doing another podcast and I could be on there going okay we found out a lot more
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information and this is how it works but right now we're just kind of like
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putting our feet in the water and we're all trying to do our best and so just if
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you are going to a reading or you are becoming a medium or you are watching
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other mediums take what resonates with you and leave what doesn't because it's
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some of it's true and some of it's not and some of it may be true for you and
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some of it may be not true for you and some of it may be true for you and
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something may work for you and not work for me so everybody's different and this
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is why when you pick out a medium go to somebody who has who people word of
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mouth people have been to people experienced they know and then if that
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wasn't so great try another one there's always just they're like doctors you can
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get second opinions you don't have to go you know what I mean so and if you find
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anyone that you like and you want to stay a little stay loyal to them because
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they they like you too I'm pretty sure so I hope that helps you guys it just it
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doesn't infuriate me it just makes me sad when I see other people you know on
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the internet telling people how it should work or how it shouldn't work or how
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this and if you've had a bad experience with a with a medium to just know it
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might have been a bad day for that medium the one thing I don't love though
00:28:06,320 --> 00:28:09,800
this is the one thing I don't love is I did have a client that went to another
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medium and her son didn't come through for that medium and that medium did say
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that her son was mad at her and I don't love that because spirits don't come
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through because they're mad at you it's honestly 100% if a spirit doesn't come
00:28:25,360 --> 00:28:30,320
through for me it's because I messed up somewhere even yesterday I was doing not
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yesterday I think Friday I was doing a reading and she said what about my baby
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sister and I said I did see a miscarriage but I knew you didn't have any
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children so I bypassed it that is my fault my fault and I messed that up and
00:28:43,840 --> 00:28:51,880
it wasn't because that sister didn't want to come through and I didn't want to
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blame the child if you tell a mother that their child doesn't want to come
00:28:55,800 --> 00:28:59,620
through because they're mad at them that is going to devastate her devastate her
00:28:59,620 --> 00:29:03,280
and I'm not I'm hoping that this person is okay that I'm sharing this it's I'm
00:29:03,280 --> 00:29:07,240
pretty sure it's okay because she doesn't I nobody knows any names but if your
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medium tells you that your person is mad at you and I would definitely then
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find a different medium because spirits they don't really carry the anger the
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only time I've ever seen spirits carry the anger is if they've been murdered and
00:29:22,680 --> 00:29:27,160
they really don't carry it they they just want justice is all right they want
00:29:27,160 --> 00:29:32,040
justice and and so but if you've had a fight or if something they don't carry
00:29:32,040 --> 00:29:38,640
that with them they watch their life review and they look at that and they
00:29:38,640 --> 00:29:43,040
know why you said the things you said why you did the things they did and they
00:29:43,040 --> 00:29:46,360
see why they did because they see the bigger picture they know that maybe you
00:29:46,360 --> 00:29:49,720
had a really hard day or they see why clear back to when they were three
00:29:49,720 --> 00:29:54,600
clear back why you did that when you were three years old why triggered you
00:29:54,600 --> 00:29:58,080
then they see all that and they pretty much can just let it go it's like water
00:29:58,080 --> 00:30:02,840
into the bridge and if it's something that they haven't let go they'll tell me
00:30:02,840 --> 00:30:06,840
we'll figure it out on the other side but they don't come through mad they
00:30:06,840 --> 00:30:10,400
don't come through and say no child is gonna come through mad at the mom and
00:30:10,400 --> 00:30:15,280
it's a good mom like a mom that wants to see your child if the mom maybe murdered
00:30:15,280 --> 00:30:21,520
the child maybe I don't know see that's the thing I've never experienced it so I
00:30:21,520 --> 00:30:25,280
don't know so that's a hard one just don't that's hard for me to know that
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that those are the things just don't ever think that a spirit doesn't come
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through because I'm at it you because I've never ever run across that now in
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five years I might change my mind I might be like huh yeah I guess they can get
00:30:41,120 --> 00:30:44,880
mad but right now I've done 20 years worth of readings and I've never seen it
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and I do three readings every day so I don't know we'll see but don't if
00:30:48,560 --> 00:30:54,120
somebody tells you if a medium tells you that that person is bad at you go to
00:30:54,120 --> 00:30:57,560
another medium and get a second opinion really do it because it's not it's not
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all entirely true so I hope that helps you guys I hope that helps with your
00:31:03,000 --> 00:31:06,960
readings I hope that that helps if you're a medium I hope that it just helps you I
00:31:06,960 --> 00:31:10,440
just want you to know that you are amazing and you're good and and and so
00:31:10,440 --> 00:31:15,760
people are just doing the best they can every day right in everything in every
00:31:15,760 --> 00:31:20,000
situation so and there are there are just like there are bad doctors and there
00:31:20,000 --> 00:31:25,680
are bad dentists there's gonna be some bad mediums and and so and I don't mean
00:31:25,680 --> 00:31:32,120
like bad because they're not trying I mean their intentions are because they
00:31:32,120 --> 00:31:36,000
want to prove how great they are they want money or it's a it's a it's a it's
00:31:36,000 --> 00:31:40,760
not to heal so just watch that but I love you guys so much and I will come up
00:31:40,760 --> 00:31:48,240
with some more groups we have a lot going on this summer I have a baby that's
00:31:48,240 --> 00:31:53,120
due like I told you about Anna wedding I told you about those and so and we are
00:31:53,120 --> 00:31:58,280
redoing our kitchen our house is 20 years old and we're redoing our kitchen
00:31:58,280 --> 00:32:02,080
it's kind of a mess so so I am going to I have an event that's in July I think
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July 18th but it got sold out super fast so I'm going to probably create another
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one right after it probably the 1st of August and also to you I have a
00:32:11,440 --> 00:32:15,640
manifesting course class coming up June 27th and it is in-house it is so if
00:32:15,640 --> 00:32:21,840
you're in the Idaho Falls area you can come I'm going to teach all about
00:32:21,840 --> 00:32:24,520
manifesting and yeah manifesting and creating things that you love and that
00:32:24,520 --> 00:32:29,960
you desire and what you want and and how that works for you so I love you guys
00:32:29,960 --> 00:32:34,160
so much and I want you to remember that you have everything that you need inside
00:32:34,160 --> 00:32:38,360
of you okay I want you to always remember that because you are the bomb
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So I love you guys and I will see you next week.
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