Hello and welcome to this episode of Smoky Spirit. I am psychic medium Cari
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Mugz and today we are going to talk about how to choose your medium or any
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type of spiritual teacher at all. Okay because there's so many out there. There's
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so many and I don't want to debunk anybody because we all have to start
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somewhere right? All of us have to start somewhere and so it's really hard for me
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to watch other mediums get online and say if your medium does this then they're
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fake or if your medium does this which there are. There are a lot of like false
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flag mediums like if there's a medium or a spiritual teacher out there that
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tells you that you need only them to advance then that's not okay. You have
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everything you already need inside of you like your growth and your spiritual
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all of that stuff is already inside of you but here's the thing if you are
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picking a medium or you're picking a type of teacher to help you with your
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mediumship or your spiritual growth then there's some rules to follow or there's
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some rules to go by. Of course of course you want to go by word of mouth right?
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Like you want to ask around see if people have had good experiences with the
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spiritual people or with certain mediums or readers or psychics or
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pommers any kind of that. You want to ask around and see other people's
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experiences. You probably want to read some of the reviews they don't have to
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have a ton of reviews because lots of people don't like to leave reviews if
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because they don't want people to know they went to mediums or these type of
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spiritual teachers so they don't have to have tons and tons and tons of reviews.
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Also you want to mostly honestly it's all about energy it's all about energy
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and how you feel and so when you are looking for a medium or a spiritual
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teacher and when you are reading the reviews see how you feel see how how
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your energy maybe feels when you read those reviews and obviously you're
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going to be looking up the medium on social media or their website or kind
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of what I mean I you should look at their social media and their website if
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they have a podcast or all of that stuff you should do that so as you're doing
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that kind of tap into how you feel and how you vibe with that with that
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spiritual teacher or that medium because that is going to be your number one
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indication. So word of mouth is good people that have had good experiences
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kind of researching the medium but mostly your vibe if you are watching the
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medium on social media and you're like okay that it's not me then it's not you
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it's you're not going to vibe in person if you're not vibe if you don't vibe with
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them on when you're watching their videos or you're watching their social
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media stuff if you don't if you don't if you feel off then it'll probably be off
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and if you start a session with a reader or a medium or a psychic and it feels
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off you can tell the medium or the psychic and say you know I'm just not
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feeling the vibe I'm just not this doesn't feel good to me and most likely
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if they have ethics they will give your money back honestly because if you're
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not feeling it they're not going to feel it and it's going to be hard it's going
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to be hard so mostly you can go by whatever everybody else says or you can
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go and which is fine because you can go by word of mouth and you can go by and
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you can go by but honestly the best indication is like how you feel because
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there's lots of spiritual teachers out there there's lots of mediums out there
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there's lots of psychics out there there's lots of all different kinds of
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spiritual workers and healers out there and there's so actually so many to choose
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from and I would say too that you know if some mediums and this is kind of hard
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because the ones that are really hard to get into sometimes are there's a reason
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there's a reason why they're really hard to get into is because there's
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because they've got a good reputation and there's lots of good stuff you know
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there's lots of good things that people have said about them and they do give off
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good energy but if there's like and that doesn't mean that if one's easy to get
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into that it's that it's that you shouldn't go to that one it's just that
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that that medium is probably starting out probably doesn't have as much experience
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doesn't have you know the training or and I'm not saying every medium needs
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training because there are some trainings that I went to that were
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ridiculous that I didn't need to go to I'm most mostly self-taught I'm
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self-taught myself but there are times when I did go to lots of classes just to
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kind of tune my skills tune into what I'm doing and so you kind of want a
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medium that does that you might want a medium that does I'm all for being
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self-taught and I think that that's great but you do kind of maybe want a
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medium who has I feel bad because I you know we all have to start somewhere
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right you like you all have to start somewhere and so but you also too the
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ones that are just starting might be less expensive so you're not the
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investment isn't as much so the ones that are hard to get into you or have
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wait lists or or too far or kind of far out just know to that if you schedule
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with them and like my I used to feel bad because my schedule was pretty full
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like I'm about six to eight months out and I used to feel bad about that but
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at the same time spirits like you know what it's all about timing and they'll
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get the reading when they need it and when they do have it what they need
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will come through and the time passes anyways so don't like feel like don't
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feel like oh my gosh they're so booked out it's gonna take forever because the
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time passes every time passes anyways so just remember to so if you get in to a
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medium that doesn't have as far as a waiting list and they are less expensive
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it's probably because they just have been there they haven't been doing it as
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long or they just started and everybody starts somewhere right and you have to
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start somewhere so it just depends on kind of what you're looking for if you
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wanted just how you feel about it how you feel about the vibe if you want to go
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into somebody who hasn't done it as long and you think that that's okay then
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that's great if you want somebody you know who's who's who has done it longer
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then that's great too what you want to mostly feel is the energy the energy so
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if you know go to all these different spirit teachers go to their pages and
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and see the content that they create or see the content that they put out and see
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if you agree with some of the things that they say I really have a hard time
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with other mediums that get on and say mediums shouldn't do this or mediums
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shouldn't do that or mediums need to do it this way because in all reality we
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all have a different way of doing it I just took you know I just did an
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Akashic Records class and I she said to you that everyone's gonna read
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differently so I'm gonna start reading Akashic Records probably in January and
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that's gonna be another form of readings that I do and Akashic Records are when
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you go into you go into the Akashic Records and you read like past present
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and future stuff for the client and right now what I do is evidential
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mediumship so your spirits come through and they give me evidence of who they
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are the Akashic Records isn't isn't as much evidential it's most like it's
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everything that's ever was recorded and in the whole entire universe ever past
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present and future so that's why the jump for me is kind of hard because I can it's
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like mostly like Akashic Record readings like what's your purpose what's your
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there's lots of different questions you can ask the Akashic Records and so and
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none of it is evidential which has been kind of a step for me because I am so
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strong on the evidence like my readings are very detailed and very accurate and
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so it's the the the imagination or the non evidence of the Akashic Records is a
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little bit difficult for me to get past so that's why it's been taking quite a
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while but she says you know everybody reads differently every medium reads
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differently every palmistry is differently every Akashic Records reader
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every reike person every every spiritual person has their own flair and their
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own thing and sometimes you might have to go to a couple to decide which ones
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for you just decide which one you you resonate with better or which is you
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know your energy holds your energy better and who you vibe with better and so and
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I want you to too don't be so hard on the spiritual people the spiritual
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teachers because they're human too and they are either just starting or they're
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you know they're learning in the process this spiritual stuff is not all one fits
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all and it doesn't all fit in a box nice and neatly things change all the time and
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so you could have one view on one thing and learn that maybe that wasn't entirely
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true like before I used to think that I couldn't do readings for anybody who
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had a passing if somebody passed away I couldn't do reading for them for four or
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five months because that's what I was taught and in reality that's not true I
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have done readings where the person passed the day before and they were fine
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so so you can't you know let those false beliefs or what other people say you
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have to go with your gut you have to go with what you believe and what you think
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and this is why it's kind of important to you that it is you know important that
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you give your spiritual teachers kind of a break because not everything is set
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in stone and I've had some amazing experiences and teachers and I've had
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some not so amazing but here's the thing if there's a medium or a spiritual
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teacher anybody spiritual in general that thinks that or tells you that you
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cannot progress or you cannot move forward without their help then that's a
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huge red flag because you have everything you need inside of you so if you have a
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spiritual person tell you that you're cursed or there's an entity in your house
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or there's something dark about you then and you need it they need to fix it then
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you need to leave because they're just trying to get that is not that is not
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true and I have to be honest if I ever saw that I would do the extra work for
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free I wouldn't be I I wouldn't be charging them to help them get rid of
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whatever it was that was around them or anything like that so that's kind of a
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red flag also to most of the time mediums do mean well and but they when
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they're first starting out they can make mistakes people make they can make
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mistakes all the time we try and interpret we can sometimes interpret
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correct incorrectly and we can have you have to imagine I want you to imagine
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that you're sitting at a table with a blindfold on and all of your spiritual
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people have come through from the other side and they're all trying to talk to
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you at the same time that's like what mediumship is so anytime there's a
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gallery or a regular reading these spirits are all here talking at the
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same time and sometimes the loudest ones get through and so sometimes you can
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hear all of them sometimes you can't so sometimes mediums will miss spirits
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they'll miss them they'll miss like if you the person that you wanted to the
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spirit that you wanted to come through and communicate with sometimes mediums
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can miss them because there's other spirits they're talking and so I want
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to make that kind of clear too if you go to a medium and you are specifically
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wanting a certain person to come through and that person doesn't and I am gonna
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this is gonna wrestle ruffle some feathers here because I know some mediums
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are like I can't control who comes through and I can't I can't control who
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comes through but I 100% know that whoever you wanted to talk to you that
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day is there for you and there might be some louder spirits that come through
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and there might be but if you've asked that spirit to be there for you they
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are there it's just a couple of things are happening one either the spirits
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around them or the other spirits that come through are louder and they talk
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louder and the medium focuses on them or the medium misses them like the medium
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like they try and bring that person through or the medium just focuses on
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the spirits that are there and doesn't feel the other and I know I know there's
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gonna be other mediums out there they're like that's not true we can't control it
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I just have never had the experience that if you want to talk to your son
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he's too busy for you I've never had that experience I've never had I've had at
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the end somebody say well what about my son and I'm like oh let me try and see
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and 90% like 95% of the time we've been able to tap in so it's really not that
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your loved ones haven't shown up to for you it's not that it's that somewhere me
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I feel like and I'm gonna take maybe not with all mediums but with me I missed it
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somewhere and I'm more than willing to try and figure out where I missed it or
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how I missed it or if they were there and it happens a few times very rarely but
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it happens a few times what I'm getting at is I don't want you to go to a
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reading and expect your son to be there or your daughter or your child and hope
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that they're there and at the end of the reading the medium says oh they're mad at
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you or oh they were too busy for you that is so not true so not true there is a
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reason why that medium didn't pick him up and I don't feel like it's because
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they were too busy or they were mad at you I 100% believe the medium just
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didn't pick him up I do and it's because either other spirits were too loud or
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too much time but I you know and other mediums I feel bad about saying
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this because I don't want to throw other mediums under the bus and say I just
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cannot fathom that the one person the loved one I mean I could see if it was
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friends maybe that Pat but honestly no if you went there specifically to talk
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to somebody there's a reason I don't feel like the reason that they didn't show
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up is because they were too busy or they were too busy doing something else it's
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it's never been my experience and I knock on wood because I you know I would
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hate to have I had a you know experience where like everybody and their dog came
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through for this client of mine and then at the end she's like but where's my son
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why didn't he come through or where and he came through for a minute I think he
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came through a minute at the end but she wanted the whole reading to focus on him
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and so then I was like you know what let's do another one and for free and we
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will figure and we'll focus on the Sun so it's just I feel like that we as
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making this make this can make mistakes and we and I do feel like we strongly
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work for spirit we work for spirit and spirit will bring through what you need
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not always what you want but there are going to be times when mediums aren't
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perfect and they can misinterpret and they can miss your loved one they can be
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so focused on the ones that they're communicating with that they that they
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just don't pick up the other one because they're trying so hard to focus on
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the one that's through there that that's communicating so you know give mediums
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a little bit of a break here and if there is somebody that you wanted to talk
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to and you're like 15 minutes towards the end of the reading you can say hey
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can you try and tap into this person for me and 100% the medium will try and if
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the medium can't then or if the medium is like yeah I'm not feeling it then it's
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just that the connection to that spirit is off with that medium or the
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connection is it doesn't mean the next one is gonna be I just feel really bad
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because there was another client that I had and she went to a medium and she
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said why didn't my son come through and he in the medium said because he's mad at
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you and that is so not true like don't take every single word that the medium
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says like as as the word of God like because mediums can misinterpret things
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they totally can they are human they make mistakes they it's like trying to
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process things it's trying to play charades and
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Pictionary at the same time with a spirit and so it's not always like I could
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see balloons and be like oh there's a birthday and they'll be like no there's
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no birthday well what do the balloons mean well there's a celebration well it
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could mean that their birthday you know their anniversary day was today when they
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died so and it just be open be super open when you do go to mediums they're not
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like cut clear I mean mediums can be accurate and mediums can be specific
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like there's there's lots of stuff that comes through specific and accurately but
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honestly there's times when that mediums can be like off a little bit and so if
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you feel like that usually if the medium is off or it's not feeling it they'll
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either cancel the reading for the day or they'll tell you if I'm if I get 10
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minutes into reading and I'm like okay I'm just not feeling it I will reschedule
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or I will will reschedule the reading because - would - like a not clear back
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out - because if the mediums like scheduled so far out like six or eight
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months then they should they shouldn't schedule you back out six or eight months
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like get you in another time that sooner or return your money and I always offer
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that I always say if we get into this in ten minutes and you you know nothing is
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resonate with you I will either give you money money back or we were scheduled
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because it's my responsibility to be at a certain frequency for you and if I don't
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feel like I'm at that frequency then I don't think that's fair to you so and
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you know it's just your vibe with the medium so kind of just know any kind of
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spiritual teacher your Kaushik record reader your any kind of spiritual person
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that's trying to help you evolve or helping you awaken it's just your
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energy with theirs that you should really really focus on or or kind of maybe
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choose or understand and that's how you kind of pick your spiritual teachers if
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they also tell you that you cannot evolve without or you need your dependent
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on them or you need to do another it's like it seems like you need to do before
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you have access to this you need to do this or before you can get here you need
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to do this that is not true either lots of other spiritual teachers do
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certifications they're like so I even did a certification class and it was
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tough and it was hard but I didn't need it I didn't need because not one of my
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clients has asked me if I'm certified not one and so and I was already pretty
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full and booked like I think about that time I was five months booked out by the
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time I when I got and so the certification didn't even help me it
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didn't even help me and I I mean and I learned some okay stuff in that class
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but it wasn't one of my favorites and it was the one I spent the most on and and
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it was the one that maybe it pushed me but it also scared the crap out of me so
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so just be really careful when you pick your spiritual mentors or you pick your
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spiritual teachers because if they make it feel like you cannot progress without
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them then they're not they're not for you and also too there's no such thing your
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spiritual teachers should not be like jealous of you there's no there's enough
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success out there for everybody so and they should want that for you too there
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they know that there's there's I there's enough success out there for everybody I
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know that every medium or every spiritual teacher is going to have a
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different clientele than me and there's enough for everybody so and then if you
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feel that way they feel that way they're going to feel in lack and then they're
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going to try and suppress you down and you don't need that you don't need
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anybody to help make you feel no one is more superior or more inferior than
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anybody and if a teacher or a student or anybody makes you feel like that then
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your vibe is not good with them then you need to kind of cut ties with them or
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let go so you get to have these boundaries you get to have these
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circumstances and so really always follow them always listen to your gut
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listen and don't feel bad about it if you have to like you know put someone out
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of your life because there's some there's some not great vibes there then do
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it do it just know that you are in charge of you and you are in charge of your
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spiritual growth nobody else can access your spiritual growth growth or nobody
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else is in charge of your spiritual growth and if they say they are then you
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need to move on there's lots of great mediums out there there's lots of great
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mediums online probably in your community and Acrostic Record readers and
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Reykake practitioners and foot zone people there's how there's just you
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know so pommas there's just so many people so many spiritual people up there
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and you don't have to just focus on the ones in your community you can always
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look and see if there's any that are online that you jive with or that you
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have heard and there's gonna be more than one like there's not just one medium or
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one Acrostic Record reader that you always have to go to you can you can
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try out lots of different ones and have different experiences I've had lots of
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readings with lots of different lots of different mediums too so you don't always
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have to just stick to one if you vibe with one at the most or you really like
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to be with one the most or you trust one the most and you just feel comfortable
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with that one that's okay too because I have lots of clients who are regulars
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and that's fine too it's all up to you it's how you feel and if you you know
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feel like that that's what's for you then just it's mostly what makes you feel
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good or what makes you vibe or what makes you what makes you feel comfortable
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and safe because at the end of the day that's all that matters I just have a
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hard time when I just you know I really struggle when other mediums get out
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there and be like if your medium does this or if your medium does that and
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your few because I get it I get there are red flags and and I understand that
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but I also believe that some a lot of times when you just first start out as
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a medium sometimes you don't know some of that stuff and sometimes you may make
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that that your medium might make that mistake that doesn't mean they're a bad
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medium they're just growing and learning and there's lots of mediums out there
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first starting and there's lots of very seasoned mediums and as and this goes
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for all spiritual workers when I say mediums I mean all spiritual workers
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all all different kinds and so just you know and if you've like heard great
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things about a specific medium and you want to try it try it because there's
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nothing honestly if the if that spiritual person is ethical and it doesn't
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work out and the vibes wrong you have nothing to lose so that is my take on
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it I just know on tiktok there's so much gosh there's so it's like so cutthroat
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on tiktok with mediumship and spiritual spiritual tiktok and all that stuff it
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just seems like it's like so cutthroat and there's so many mediums that are out
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there doing the medium police thing and I which I think is great because they
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want to they want to protect people and I understand that I understand that people
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want to protect others and I totally you know I'm on board with that too if
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they're if you feel disrespected by any kind of spiritual worker or you know
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there is such thing as spiritual abuse and that's when your your mentor or your
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teacher makes you think that there's only one way and that's with them or there
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that you have to do certain things to get like certain inappropriate things to
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get to a spiritual level or to help them get to a spiritual level that's not
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good either there's no your your spiritual person does not need your help
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to become more aware or become or with their spiritual journey and your
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spiritual person can help open your senses and they can help you because
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here's the thing you can do all of this on your own you can find out all you
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even rakey sessions foot zones you could do mediumship you could do all of it on
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your own you really can but sometimes when you find somebody who's been doing
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it for a while or knows what they're doing it just puts you that much farther
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you can either Google and research it for two years or you can get what you
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need in an in one one clearing or one session so that's kind of like where I'm
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at but you don't absolutely need that person to get you to where you need to
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go and that's the only way you can get there so be really careful of that
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there's spiritual abuse somebody who just makes you feel like you can only do
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or they make you feel guilty or they make you feel like if you didn't do it
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their way or if you don't do it a certain way they you feel guilty and
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that's not true either everybody's completely different so just be really
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careful and just be really not careful but knowledgeable just be really awake
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really aware and when you're searching a lot of times your guides will lead you
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to where you need to go your guide so I know if people are like when people come
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to me they're like I heard your name three times and I knew I was supposed to
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come that's their guides that's their ancestors telling them to come here I
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work for spirit I know my client is in front of me but I work for spirit so if
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I have clients that come to me and say so-and-so told me about you so-and-so
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told me about you and or I found you through this or I found you through that
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I know I've made this they're they're 100% being sent by their ancestors their
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loved ones are sending them to me because that's the deal I have I don't go to
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anybody I they come to me I don't even like I mean I will I will advertise my
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classes but I don't ever really advertise readings because my deal with spirit
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was they bring the people to me and so that's kind of how it works I work for
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spirit I work for spirit 100% and then spirit will send people to me so I know
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when my clients come that they were sent to me from spirit so I kind of don't feel
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that scared you know that that tension or that scaredness because I know that
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spirits on the other side sent them to me but I hope that that makes it you know
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sometimes I go off on tangents and I like blah blah blah blah blah but I hope
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that that is kind of clear that you don't need anybody else's help to I mean to
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grow spiritually you can have help you can ask for like guidance and help and
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that's great but you don't need somebody to complete you you have you are all on
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your own that disempowers you that disempowers you when you feel like you
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need somebody else to complete you or complete your journey or complete your
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spiritual growth you have everything you need inside of you and you are not
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disempowered you can do this on your own now do mentors and spiritual teachers
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and clearings and stuff help of course they do of course they do I I go to I
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get foot baths all the time I get massages I get my I get all of that to
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kind of clear in fact I need to get another one so so anyways just know that
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you just be just ask your guides that's ask your guides and feel the energy when
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you're searching for a spiritual teacher when you're searching for someone to
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help you spiritually to progress ask your guides to guide you to who you need
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to see and ask and and then kind of feel the vibe that you get with that person
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and and that's really all you need that's really all you need you really
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don't even need Google reviews word of mouth is great but or you know review
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reviews are great but let's face it there's gonna be skeptics out there and
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there's gonna be some that leave bad reviews and that's not really fair to
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the spiritual teacher but if there's like a ton of bad reviews then I would
00:28:19,480 --> 00:28:23,320
maybe like be like okay maybe that's not a good fit but mostly just kind of ask
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your guides feel the energy and go where you led because that's the perfect way
00:28:28,560 --> 00:28:33,560
to you know just kind of research it and see and go where you led because
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spirits not gonna lead you to the wrong to the wrong person so and give
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everybody you know all of them all of spiritual people just because they're
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spiritual people doesn't mean that they're perfect it doesn't mean they're
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human and we all we're all human and we all make mistakes and we all just try
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and do our best every day I would hope that we do and so just know that you are
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being guided you are being driven to the right person and that person has
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integrity and that person wants to help you and that person is more about your
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helping you with your progression then then then the finances right so anyways
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I hope that that helps I just know that there's been lots of questions and lots
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of people out there trying to figure out the right path or figure out their
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journey trust trust yourself that you're getting that right information
00:29:26,280 --> 00:29:29,480
because it can be hard and it can be daunting and and I you know there is I
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gone to lots of different spiritual and there are some more that I like other
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than others because we buy better not that they're teaching in a different
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method or they're teaching better things or they know more just because we buy
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better we have a better connection and that's pretty much what happens so I
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hope you guys liked this if you did like this could you please subscribe to my
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YouTube channel or to my to the podcast and you know rate or rate it because that
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helps me that helps it so I get seen more so it can help more people and that's
00:30:04,680 --> 00:30:07,840
my goal is to help more people because I know I get booked out pretty far and so
00:30:07,840 --> 00:30:11,520
I want to be able to help more people on a larger scale so more people that have
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access so I did just finish up an Acacic Record reading this last weekend it was
00:30:16,320 --> 00:30:22,040
awesome and I do have more classes coming up so if you want to look at those you
00:30:22,040 --> 00:30:27,000
can look at my website or get my newsletter you can find that newsletter
00:30:27,000 --> 00:30:30,680
at Carriemux.com I do have lots of cool merchandise that has the little
00:30:30,680 --> 00:30:36,440
Spunky Spirit Ghost in my in my store I pretty much have if you don't want if
00:30:36,440 --> 00:30:42,400
you're local I do have events coming up too I think my next event will be in
00:30:42,400 --> 00:30:48,240
December my next Spirit Gallery type reading and those are awesome those are
00:30:48,240 --> 00:30:53,680
really really awesome those have been fun for me and they get filled up pretty
00:30:53,680 --> 00:30:57,840
fast like within 24 hours so if you want news on those you need to probably I'm
00:30:57,840 --> 00:31:03,240
actually looking into some maybe bigger venues for those because they get they
00:31:03,240 --> 00:31:08,520
get filled out so fast and if you want news on all of that stuff please go and
00:31:08,520 --> 00:31:15,160
get my newsletter and it's at Carriemux.com and just know that you know
00:31:15,160 --> 00:31:20,880
this process and this for everybody is just a journey and we all are just
00:31:20,880 --> 00:31:25,800
trying to we're all just trying to do our best right especially with the energy
00:31:25,800 --> 00:31:30,240
that's been around lately we're all just trying to do our best so give people a
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break if you're a spiritual teacher give people a break and if you are somebody
00:31:33,560 --> 00:31:39,720
who's going to a spiritual teacher give them a break we're all human we're all
00:31:39,720 --> 00:31:43,720
doing the best we can and I love you guys so much and just remember one thing
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you have all the magic that you need already inside of you and I love you
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guys and I will talk to you next week
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