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Welcome to the Spunky Spirit Podcast. I'm your host, psychic medium, Cari Mugz. This
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miss an episode. Hello and welcome to this episode of Spunky Spirit. This week just ended,
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this is December 2nd of 2024, so Thanksgiving just ended and now we are starting the Christmas
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season, the holiday season, the magical season, and let's face it, sometimes it's super magical
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and awesome and great and sometimes it's so hard. You can either be going through grief
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because of somebody that you lost that isn't around anymore or you could be grieving because
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being around family is hard. And when you were little, you didn't understand that drama unless
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you were in a traumatic family, right? Or a traumatic situation. So this week, we're going to kind
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talk about you being enough because it is the holidays and because it is kind of hard and you
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feeling like sometimes you're not enough, especially when you're around family or around people that
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sometimes you need to have a couple drinks to be around or just need to have boundaries. So it is a
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magical season and spirits are with you and your ancestors are with you and it's a beautiful season,
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but sometimes you only find glimpses of that because it's also chaotic and it's also hectic
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and it's also super hard when you've lost somebody that you've loved, especially during,
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well, I was going to say this year, but any year, any year, you know, going through a holiday season
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without someone that you were very, very close to, um, a lost loved one is, is difficult no matter how
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many years have passed. So, so I, the reason why you guys might not think that this is a spiritual
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topic, right? Being enough, but it actually very much is. And the reason why is because, and I think
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I've said this before, it used to be believed that we are at our highest frequency when we are,
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the highest frequency is love and gratitude. So, you know, when you're with your family or you're
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with your loved ones, if you have gratitude and love, then you're at your highest frequency,
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but they've had a new study done and the people with the highest energy or the highest, and I don't
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know how they measure this, but they did. The people with the, with the highest energy or the highest
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frequency were people who were being authentic, people who were being themselves. And it's hard to be in
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love and gratitude. And it's hard to be authentic when you're people pleasing, when you're seeking approval
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from others, when you're trying to, um, be someone you're not at family functions, um, or just in general,
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right? Like the reason why I'm talking about holiday family functions is because it is the holiday season,
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but this can be just in general. And so because we do tend to be someone we're not at family functions,
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because we want the approval of our siblings or our, um, parents or our grandparents or even our own
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children. Right. Um, and so we, we just want so badly, like I know for me, sometimes I want so badly to
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create this magic that, that I had when I was little for Christmas and I want to recreate it.
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And, and it's hard when you have adult children. It's not hard though for the grandkids because they
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love the magic. They love it. They don't know the drama. They don't know everything that's going on.
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So I just want you to know that you are enough right now, as you are in this moment, you are enough.
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And I was just watching, believe it, this morning, um, a little clip of a video. I think it's, his name's
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Bashar. I'm not sure, but she says, why do I care? She asks, why do I care so much about what people think?
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And he's like, why do you? Because when you feel like they don't think you're enough, when somebody
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doesn't think you're not good enough, it only affects you if you believe it. Right. So you, somewhere
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deep inside you, you believe that you believe that you weren't a good parent, or you believe that you
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weren't a good spouse or a good child or a good worker or a good person, even somewhere along that line,
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you believe it. And I remember telling, you know, back in the day when I would do some coaching for people,
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for women, especially, I would say, when somebody tells you that you have green hair, it doesn't affect you.
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If you have black hair, and somebody says, you have green hair, you're just like, no, I don't. And it doesn't
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really affect you because you know, it's not true. You know, with every fiber of your being, you know that that's not
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true, you don't have green hair. So you don't believe it. And you kind of think they're crazy. And you just
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kind of like, throw it off, right. But if somebody tells you, you're, you're overweight, or you're rude, or you're
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mean, or you're something, and you kind of believe that, or maybe you think that it might be true, deep down
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somewhere, then that's when it gets you. That's when you or if you, you know, if you feel like you did your
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best in that situation, and you couldn't have done it better. That's when it gets you. That's when you're
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like, is there truth to that? And that's when you start second guessing yourself. And we also always do
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this thing that's kind of held in our, our sacral chakra. And it's the thing, once I get to this point,
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I'll be happy. Once I get married, I'll be happy. Once I get married, I'll be good enough. Once I lose
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10 pounds, I'll be good enough. Once I get that promotion, I'll, I'll be good enough. Once I make
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this amount of money, I'll be good enough. Once I'm successful, I'll be good enough. We play that
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scenario. And we think that we have to reach a milestone, or we have to be at this expectation
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to be good enough. And in reality,
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you are good enough right now, as you are in this moment, you've made it, you've made it.
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And it doesn't matter if you're in the middle of the chaos. It doesn't matter if you're in the
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middle of the grief. It doesn't matter if you're in the middle of healing. It doesn't matter if you
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just woke up this morning, and you have an addiction problem, and you want to be like,
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I want to change. It doesn't matter. You are good enough because you exist. You exist. And you are here
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because you wanted to be here. I know that's crazy. Because sometimes we're like, what the heck?
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But you are here and you are good enough, because you make a difference. And whether or not you feel
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it or not, you do. And you make a difference to somebody somewhere. And it doesn't even matter if
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it's somebody somewhere, you make a difference to you. You are here to be authentic and find joy.
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You are not here to please anybody else. You are not here to please your husband or your wife,
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or your parents or your children, or anybody, grandpa, grandma, anybody. You are here to find joy
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and please yourself to be authentic. And we try so hard, especially, and I'll leave it at people pleasing.
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I grew up a people pleaser. And, and I have quite a bit of, you know, narcissistic people that have been in my life.
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And it's hard when you're an empath, and you want so bad to people please, and you want so bad people,
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you want people's approval so badly, that you, you just you change for that person. I call it the chameleon,
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chameleon. And you become a chameleon. And in reality, the only person that you need to be good enough for
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is yourself and your creator. And I have news for you, your creator loves you. Regardless,
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regardless, like, so much love, it is an unconditional. And so even if you feel like you make mistakes to the
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creator, failure is just a look at yourself to create better, right to create, and what is better,
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and what by what measurement is better to somebody else, right? Success to you could mean success to
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somebody else completely different. Success to one person could be having wealth, and monetary wealth,
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success to another person could just be having a healthy relationship, right? So you kind of have
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to define what success is to you, and what you want, not what anybody else wants for you, but what for you,
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what you want for you. And so and I know this is really hard, especially in marriages, because there's
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a co creation kind of thing going on. But as long as you're trying to better each other, and as long as
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you're trying to help each other and not control each other, then you should be able to be your
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authentic self. If you find somebody who loves you for who you truly are, and tries to help you be better,
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and not hold you down and not want you to be at their beck and call. And I'm just being honest, like,
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marriage is hard, because you sometimes you try to be authentic. And it's hard because you feel like you
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can cringe on somebody else. But honestly, that kind of takes time. And that takes a lot of healthy
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counseling. And trying to help each other become the best version of yourselves. And sometimes that
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doesn't work. And so you have to decide if you want to stay in it, or if you want to create the best
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version of yourself somewhere else. And that's okay. Because we have this thing on earth that says that we,
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you know, if we can't stay in a marriage, we failed. And that is not true. That is not true.
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It's you, you can't expect to fall in love with somebody when you're 20. And, and if you're not
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working on it constantly, still maybe, you know, be in love together when you're 80, you totally can be.
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And but that's constantly working and making it work not. I mean, this is a hard situation, right? Because,
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because it works both ways. If you're in a marriage for 50 to 60 years, congratulations,
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that's awesome. And, and you guys could help each other be your better selves, more power to you. And
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if you're if you couldn't, and you've been in like your third marriage, and you're trying to find
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something healthy, that's okay, too. There's no rules on how to make it perfect, right? The rules of
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being married to the same person your whole life was created by a religion by religion. And so it's,
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we don't even know deep down, I'm deep, if that's even the truth, right? If that's even true, that
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we're supposed to be with one person for the rest of our lives. So if you're like going through,
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if you have been great, if you want to, that's great, too. If you couldn't be with someone,
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the same person for the rest of your life, that's okay, too. You are enough, where you are in this
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moment right now, in whatever type of relationship you're in. And, and I just can't even tell you enough,
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how important that is for you to know, because we, and I, and I want to be really careful here,
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because we feel like we owe people, we are obligated to people, we're obligated to chill our children,
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because they're our children, we're obligated to our parents, because they're our parents,
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we're obligated to our spouse, because they're our spouse. And responsible people, and people who love
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to be around that, that could be true in some way. But really, honestly, in the truth, you are not
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obligated to anybody, and you don't owe anybody anything. Now, that being said, I'm looking kind
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of like at older children, because if you have children, you need to take care of them, give them,
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you need to give them love and shelter and clothing and the most healthy, healthy, healthy life that they
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could have until they're older and grown, and then they can decide what they want to do. And if part of
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that decision is not being around you as a parent, that's their deal. And you are still good enough.
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As long as you can look at your creator and say, I did the best I could, and really feel that in your
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heart, you owe nobody anything. So your kids, it works both ways too. You don't owe your kids anything,
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and they don't owe you anything. They're not obligated to you just because you had them. And you're not
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obligated to them just because you had them. And same with parents, you're not obligated to your parents
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just because you had them just because they had you. And they're not obligated to you because they
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were your parents. In this society today, we feel like because their family, we're obligated. Because
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they're my family, I have to go to Thanksgiving. Because they're my parents, I have to go to Christmas
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because I'm obligated. And we do get that from the teachings of, of Christ, because we want to be
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Christ-like. And we want to be loving and giving. But we've come to that now in these days as being
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loving and giving and sacrificing our own boundaries and our own needs and our own health because we're
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obligated because they're our family. And that's when it gets hard. So you have every right to put your
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needs first. It's not selfish. But we are brought up in a Christ-like society to believe that it is.
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But the thing that you have to understand is, it's so Christ-like to help other people. It is.
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But not when you can't function yourself or not when you're in a healthy state to be able to help
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those people. It's such a give and take kind of thing because you can lose yourself in service.
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And you can, a lot of times I remember in my religion, they would say, if you ever feel depressed or
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selfish, then serve somebody. And it would go away. And that's not entirely true. Because you could serve
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serve and serve and serve. And at the end of the day, you're family and you come first. You come first
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because you can't give to others if you don't have the energy or if you're depressed or you're sad.
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And if you just keep giving and giving and giving, your light's going to burn out. Your light's going to
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burn out. You're not going to have anything left to give. And so you have to just know that even if
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you're in a time and a season right now that you can't give and everybody else is giving and everybody
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else is likely you need to give, you're good enough if you don't. You're good enough in your right now.
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And if your right now season is taking care of you, then take care of you. Because to everything,
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there's a season, right? Everything, there's a season. And if you're a parent raising little kids,
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it might not be your season to give right now. You might be focused on your family. If you're a parent
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with older kids and you're empty nesters and you, then you might be able, it might be your season to
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give. It might be your season to take care of yourself right now and to heal yourself because you
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can't give anybody else oxygen. If you don't put your oxygen mask on first. So what I'm saying is,
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I guess, you know, I get off on tangents. So welcome to Spunky Spirit. You know that I do this
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all the time. The reason why I brought the Christ-like thing up is because even Christ had boundaries.
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You guys, even Christ took care of himself. There were, I mean, he, when he found out about John the
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Baptist's death, now don't quote me on Bible stuff. I think I, I kind of know some of the stories, but I'm
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not like, I need to actually probably start reading the Bible again. Um, but he, when he found out about
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John the Baptist's death, he left for three days, um, to mourn and to grieve. And when he went to,
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and I read this in a book, I don't think this was in the Bible, but, um, it was by a Bible scholar. I'll have
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to look at the book. I'll have to look for the book, but when he went to, um, raise Lazarus,
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I think was from the, from the death, from the dead. He, I think it took three days to get there.
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But when he got there, I think I remember reading that he had to shut the naysayers out before he
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could bring Lazarus back to life. Um, because he couldn't be surrounded by the people who didn't
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believe in him, by the people who didn't think he was good enough. Right. So if Christ,
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Christ can't even like be around those people, then to do his magic, I mean, he could probably be
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right. He could probably have done it, but you have to remember my belief is I love the Christ.
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I believe in Christ. Um, but he wasn't here to be worshiped by us. He was here to teach us
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what we are capable of doing and what we, what is possible and what we can, can do if we believe in
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ourself enough and love ourself enough and have confidence in ourself enough. We can do those,
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those magical things. We can, we can do those things. And I think that he was here to teach that,
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to help us raise our frequency. And even he got angry in the temple and threw things around because,
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because he was also human, right? But he never doubted. He had unconditional love for everybody,
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but he still had to have boundaries just like in that temple. And when he had unconditional love for
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everybody, he also didn't think that he was more in, he was inferior or superior to anybody.
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He treated everybody as equals. So even like the people, even the, the wealthy, he treated them
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the same way as he did the sick and the lame. And so, because he knew everybody was good enough,
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the way they were at that moment. And so if you go through this holiday season and you doubt yourself
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and you people pleased to try and please your family and you try and, you know, change so you can,
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so they can be proud of you, you remember that you are good enough because you exist, because you are on
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this planet, because you're supposed to be. And you don't have to be wealthy. You don't have to own your
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own business. You don't have to kiss the boss's butt. You don't have to, you don't have to
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try and people please your parents or your siblings or your children. All that matters is that you feel
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good with who you are. And if you don't, then you know that that's something you need to work on and you
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need to go to counseling and figure out why. But you know, other people's opinions are not fact.
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They're not fact. So when somebody tells you you're tired, you're lazy, or you're not successful,
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or you're not good enough, that's like them telling you, you have green hair. You, the only reason you
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will leave and let it bother you is because somewhere deep inside you, you think it's true.
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So if, if there's a child of yours, that doesn't think you are a good enough parent,
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or if there's a parent of yours that doesn't think you're a good enough child,
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that's their opinion, completely their opinion. And it doesn't, shouldn't affect you at all.
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Because if you know you did the best you could, there's nothing else you can do. And if you don't
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think you did the best you could, then go to counseling or go to that child and try and talk
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it out. But you know what? You are enough right now in this moment. And here's the thing.
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Karma is real. Karma is a very, very real thing. And it's not a revengeful thing. It's just a universal
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law. So if somebody is putting out to you that you're not good enough, or if one of your spouses,
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siblings, or children are putting out to you that you're not good enough, 100%, it will come back to
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them. It will come back to them. And down the line, they'll be put in the same spot in a similar
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situation. And not that it's revengeful. It's just that you get what you put out there. And you reap what
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you sow. And, and even Jesus taught that in the Bible. So if you, and if you focus on what other people
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think of you, then you'll get that back to you need to know that you are good enough.
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You are divinely guided. You are, you are part of the creator. And you're good right now, where you are,
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where you stand, because you exist, not because you have to prove anything to anybody.
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So I just want you to know that because I know, in a lot of my readings lately, especially during the
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holidays, there's lots of siblings not talking to each other. There's lots of
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parents not talking to children and children not talking to parents and families fighting.
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And I want you to know that that's all okay. Because most likely, it's because there's boundaries in
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place somewhere. There's boundaries, and somebody doesn't feel comfortable with somebody. And that's
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all okay. But I just don't want you to feel like you're the problem, or have you take it on as you
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caused it. Because even if you did, family dynamics are so hard, right? Because there are people who do
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cause trauma and drama. And, and there are people that you just don't want to be around because they're,
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they suck the energy right out of you. And so I get that. And if you are one of those people that don't,
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and I'm telling here, I'm sitting here telling you that you're not the problem, then that's,
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that's not okay, right? But as where you stand, if you, you know, if you only if you if your intentions
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are good, and your intentions are not to manipulate people, and you have done the best you can,
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then, um, most likely, it's a they problem, right? But it's cool. If you look inside yourself and think,
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okay, wait, is there something that I could have done better? Or is there something that I need to
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work on now? Could have done better isn't an issue because it's passed. But can I fix it now? Can I fix
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it now? But this is like, too much of like family dynamics, holiday stuff. It's, you know, there are
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reasons for trauma. And if you don't want to go to family functions, that's your thing. And if you
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have a sibling or a child or a parent who doesn't want to come to your family functions, that's their
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thing. And that's okay. And you just need to know that no matter the reasons, no matter what, you are
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good enough. You are good enough. And if they don't think you are, that's their problem. And you need to
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not dwell on that. That's what I'm trying to say. You are loved by the divine, you are part of the
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creator. And so are they. But for some reason, you're just not meshing. And it's okay. Don't look
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down on yourself for that. And this really went really far on a tangent of me just going to take 15
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minutes to tell you that you're good enough. Um, you it's just hard because there's so many different
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components to family dynamics and there's so many different boundaries and, you know, there's
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families are, are tough and, but they're also, they also can be beautiful and loving. And, um,
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there can be people in your family you don't get along with. And there can be people that you,
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you know, are like twins with. And so just don't be so hard on yourself and just know that you are
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loved. And a lot of that too, if it's not worked out on earth, it will be worked out on the other
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side. Because when we go over to the other side, we'll see each other's life. You'll see your life
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review and you'll see why people do the things that they do. And you'll have a lot more compassion
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and same with them. They'll have a lot more compassion. So don't focus on the drama. Don't
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focus on the, on the, well, she said, he said, don't focus on, well, well, this person, I don't want to be
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around this person, you know, focus on the beauty and the love and the magic. I really honestly have
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just started focusing on the grandchildren because bless my grandma's heart. I feel like, you know,
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she would make a big gathering, very special Christmas gathering. But as a child, I never saw
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the drama with it. I never saw my dad drinking all the time at this Christmas. I mean, I saw it,
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but I was used to my dad drinking, right? But I didn't know the others looked down upon it.
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I didn't know that there were, you know, siblings, sibling rivalry. I didn't know that some of the,
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you know, some of the, the kids didn't, didn't like my grandma. I didn't know any of that.
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And so now I look on it and think, wow, I was either oblivious to it, or I was a child.
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And child, children, when they're really young, they don't know. And so, and that it doesn't matter
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to them because all they see is the magic. So that's what I, you know, if you can look past the,
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the trauma, keep your boundaries, but look past that and find the magic in the little things and find,
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you know, the faith in who you are and the magic in who you are, because you have everything you
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already need inside of you. And the fact that, you know, that no matter what anybody thinks,
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you are good enough. And no matter what anybody says, you are good enough. And if you feel like
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you've screwed up, you can fix it. And if they won't let you fix it, you know, and you heart you
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have, I guess that's what I'm trying to say. Family dynamics are tough, but as long as you know that
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you are perfect in every way right now in this moment, um, and not perfect, but cause you don't
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have to be perfect, but for right now in this moment, you are enough that you, you can create
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your own magic and you can do this and you can, you can do anything you put your mind to or your heart
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to, and you don't need anybody else's approval or anybody else's opinion or anybody's stamp of
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satisfactory or a gold star because you have everything you already need and you are enough.
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So I don't want you to go through, cause I, the reason why is cause you know, you go through all
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this counseling and you work on those lower chakras and you get all that stuff and then you hit it the
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holidays. And it's like, all of that work is like, you feel like it might be gone in like five seconds.
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It's not, it's just a little bit of a step back and it's just a little bit of you testing all the work
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you've done, right? It's just all the work you've done. And just know too, I do so many readings and
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every, um, there's just so many people out there that are, that are, that are, that are having family
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trauma and they don't get to see some of their loved ones at Christmas because somebody chooses not to
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come or somebody chooses, um, not to be part of the family anymore, or somebody chooses. It's not just a,
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it's, it's a very common thing that comes through in almost all my readings, lots of siblings, not
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talking to each other, lots of all of that. And so you're not, it's not just your family. It's not just
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you. It's, it's, it's, it's, I have, it's sad to say it's a normal thing, but as long as you focus on
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you and what you can control in your world and not anybody else, and you know that you are enough,
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then this Christmas, this holiday season will be magical. And, you know, especially when people go
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through, um, you know, divorces or family trauma like that, it can be hard because, and, and then you,
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because the, you know, children can pick different parents and then you've got, once they are older,
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you've got in-laws and then, you know, you're trying to take care of your parents. It just can be a lot.
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And so I just want you to know, to take a deep breath, step back, deep breath, and know that you're,
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you're beautifully and wonderfully made and you are cross. It is Christ-like to take care of yourself
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so you can take care of those other things when you're healthy enough to do it. So I feel like this
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whole pod, this whole episode was kind of like a really was just like ADHD, blah, blah, blah, blah,
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squirrel. But honestly, it's just so important. My message that to this time is to, to let you know
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that holidays can be tough. And, you know, when you're little, they're magical and wonderful. They
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can be magical and wonderful. But when you, as you get older, they lose that luster because,
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because family stuff happens, chaos happens. And so just knowing that you're enough this year
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might be just the magic that you need to get through this holiday season, to know that you love
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yourself unconditionally, that you are enough and that you are unconditionally loved by your ancestors,
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by your spirit team, and by the divine and by you. And if you are still struggling,
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struggling with being able to look in the mirror and tell yourself that you love yourself or that
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you're enough, then you probably need to do some work there. And that's always in the lower chakras,
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right? Those are the ones that hold all the, all the guck. So I love you guys so much. And I hope that
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this in some way helps. I know it was just me blabbing and blabbing and blabbing, but it's just,
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it's been something that's been coming up a lot in my readings. And I just really wanted you to all know
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that you are enough. You are, you are enough, whether you believe it or not, you are. And so I'm so
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incredibly proud of you and I love you and I will see you. Oh, I was gonna say, I will see you next
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week, but this is my birthday month and we are going to Disneyland for my birthday because you know
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what? I took it, I decided to take a trip to Disneyland on my birthday because I love me.
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I know that sounds like, it's just, you know what? I decided I want to do something fun. I'm going to
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go to my favorite place and I want to do something that's healthy for me. And that's what I'm doing
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this year. So this is just your reminder that do something fun for yourself, find the magic. And I
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think the reason why I love Disney so much, Disneyland is because I do feel like it's magical.
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The whole intention of Disneyland is magical. And Disneyland at Christmas time, to me, what could
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be more magical? Because my favorite time of the year is Christmas and my favorite place in the world,
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and I haven't been to a lot, but it's Disneyland. And so to put those two things together for me is magic.
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Christmas is still very magical for me, but I also
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know that chaos and family and little things like that can get in the way of finding the magic at
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Christmas. But I just want you to remember to look for the magic moments. And part of the magic is in
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you, not in somebody else, not in somebody else's approval of you. It's in you. So I love you guys
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so much. And I will maybe see you next week. I'll try and get one done before I go to Disney. Okay. Love you guys.
