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Welcome to the Spunky Spirit Podcast. I'm your host, psychic medium, Cari Mugz. This
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is where we learn all things spirit, everything from spiritual gifts, awakenings, ghosts, aliens,
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and star seeds. Nothing is untouchable, but always fun and spunky. I am honored to be
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on this spiritual journey with you, so make sure you hit the subscribe button so you never
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miss an episode. Hello and welcome to this episode of Spunky Spirit. I am psychic medium,
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Carrie Muggs. And today we're going to talk about soulmates and twin flames. But first I want to
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talk about the podcast schedule. I used to record them on Mondays and then post them on Tuesdays,
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but I'm changing that I'm going to record them on Wednesdays and post them on Thursdays just because
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my schedule at home and with work is just kind of so crazy lately and Wednesday is going to be the
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best option for me. And so Thursdays will be every other Thursdays. Sometimes maybe every Thursday just
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depends on what's going on in my life. Sometimes it can be kind of overwhelming and I can't get to a
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podcast and sometimes I can. So usually every other Thursday, sometimes there might be some add-ons in
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there too. But it's just kind of a crazy thing, these podcasts. I love to share my experiences. I
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love to share my thoughts and I love that people love them, but also too, they can be time consuming
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and they can take a lot of energy. And so sometimes I need my energy to go to other places like the
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readings and galleries and things like that. So today we are going to talk about soulmates and twin flames.
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And the reason why I'm going to talk about them is because this spirituality to me,
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I can change, you can change your mind. It's never in a box. It's never as is just not. So like
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mathematic two plus two is always going to be four. There's absolutes, everything, you know,
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some things have absolutes, but spirituality is not an absolute. Things can change. And because it's
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never like, it's because sometimes we can get information and interpret it correctly or incorrectly.
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And so in the past, I have believed that soulmates or twin flames took our power away from us because
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I've always said, we always have everything we need inside of us. And so I thought we didn't need,
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I thought that the belief in twin flames or soulmates took that power away from us, took the power that we
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needed somebody else to complete us. And we didn't need any, we don't need anybody else to complete us.
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So, and I took a class from somebody in the beginning of my mediumship. And sometimes you
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get taught things that aren't true. Just like I was taught that, you know, someone should wait six
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months till after their loss before they have a reading. I've now learned that's not true. If you're
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ready before six months, have a reading. So because the spirits don't, it led people to believe that
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spirits weren't ready to talk to you for six months. And that's not the case. The case was,
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is the medium who didn't, the mediums didn't want to deal with the grief. They didn't want to deal
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with the, they wanted you to have six months of, of, you know, going through your grief first before
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you could hold that frequency. And I've had readings where it didn't matter. So I don't, it's not all,
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you know, the steady rule for all mediums, but it's not a rule for me because I'm,
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I've been so booked out that someone will schedule a reading, um, eight months in advance,
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and then they'll come in for the reading and they'll say, though, their grandmother came through
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and their grandma just died that week. So that is not a steadfast rule. You can get a reading when
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you're ready. But that being said, sometimes we're taught things that aren't entirely true,
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but that's what people believe or what's what they were taught. And so you pass that down to
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different people. It's just like false beliefs, right? And so I believe that I believed that, um,
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that twin flames and soulmates took your power away and that there wasn't, there wasn't,
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there wasn't such thing or they weren't romantically, they weren't something that was romantic.
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Um, I, you know, soulmate, soulmates are people who are, you are connected to that you will meet in
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this lifetime that have a huge impact on your life. And it doesn't have to be romantic. It can be
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romantic, but it doesn't have to be. And it can be any kind of relationship. It can be somebody that
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you've met for one hour, um, that makes you kind of think about things or change things, or, um, it could
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be somebody that you met for, it could be a sibling or a daughter or, um, a child or a parent, or it can
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be romantic. Soulmates are people that you feel very connected to on a spiritual level that in some part of
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your life at that time, they meant to teach you something, or they're meant to, to change the
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trajectory of your life. And I believe that, you know, when we get up, when we're in, when we're in
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the preexistence or pre before we get here, and we work on our soul contract, we know who those soulmates
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are going to be. And that person's soul, um, has like a contract with us, like a, a contract that
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they're going to show up or a contract that they're going to be, they're going to show up at that certain
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time of our life. And sometimes they don't always have to be awesome and nice. They can teach us very
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hard lessons. And because before we came here, maybe we were, we were spiritually connected in a good way.
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So, but I always used to teach because I was taught that twin flames weren't a thing or, um, soul,
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soulmates were always a thing, but not in a romantic way. But I guess my opinion about twin
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flames has changed just because there's a couple of things. One, I started to read a lot. I started
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to read, um, all types of books, self-help books, fantasy books, fiction books, romance books, all the
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type. And I love reading because I think it just opens, it just opens up. And I think there's a lot
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of ancient wisdom in, um, authors. So even like, you know, Stan Lee, who wrote, I think, did he write,
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he didn't do DC, he did Marvel. And, um, I think he was gifted. I think he saw, you know, us seeing our
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powers as we really are. Um, I think he saw parallel universes. He saw people coming into their power.
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He saw, you know, he saw a lot of things that we as humans don't see. And I think that he was gifted in that he
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saw this and he created it into comic books. Same with movies. We see movies all the time that create a
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spiritual type level or things that we, you know, that these, the spirit downloads to these authors or these writers
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to tell us in a way that's fiction or that we understand or that we love.
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Because if someone to come out and say, you have spiritual powers and there are parallel universes,
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we would all be like, no way that's not. But with these books or the stories or these comics, we,
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you know, it's something we hope for something we dream of something that's fiction, but,
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but in our soul, it holds truth and ancient wisdom of some sort that holds some sort of truth. And,
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you know, there's so many, so many questions in this universe. It's just hard to, you know,
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believe that we're it, that there's not more to it than this. There's just, it's too much. It's too,
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too many other things that say there's so much more than just this life, so much more than just this
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world, so much more than just this. And I don't mean to say just this in a bad way. We are here with the
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veil closed, so we don't see that just this is pretty miraculous, but we're so, you know, so into the third
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frequency, the third dimensional frequency that, that we kind of get lost in, in the lower frequency.
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So, I am saying, I have been kind of given a download or a lesson from spirit that through
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these readings and through Akashic Record readings that I've been given, that I've been giving, there are
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such things as twin flames. Spirit has let it be known to me that there are twin flames. Does that mean
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there's somebody else out there that completes you? No. It means that there are spirits out there, soul,
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soul that are from your, that could, they could be from the same soul or they could be from a different
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soul. I was told that they're from the same soul, but I kind of don't, that doesn't resonate with me
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very well. That doesn't sit with me very well. So, I kind of don't believe all of that entirety. I believe
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that if there is a spirit that's from the same soul and you guys meet their soulmates, there is a
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connection, but I don't always necessarily think that that's a twin flame. I feel like I have been
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told in these Akashic Record readings that people do have twin flames. And I believe that that is just
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somebody that you feel strongly connected to, that you prefer to be with, with more than anybody else.
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Somebody who is like the ying to the, your yang, somebody who does feel like they understand you and
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they help you and they, they want to see you grow and you love each other unconditionally and
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uncompleted, just completely in love. And I, you know, from a little girl, I always just believed in
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that. I believed in that. And then as I grew older and I was in the LDLs religion, I'm just going to be
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straight out. There are some people that said, it doesn't matter who you marry, you can be compatible
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with anybody. And I kind of, that kind of lost some of its romantic luster and it kind of lost the magic
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for me. Like I kind of, and then I started to get into my, my mediumship. And then, you know, these
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mediumship teachers were saying, there's no such thing as soulmates. There's no such thing as twin flame.
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You don't need somebody else to complete you. And, um, it never really sat well with me. I just thought
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that that must be true because everything you need is already inside of you. Everything that we have is,
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is inside of us, we have, you know, the, the energy of God inside of us and we're, we're part of the
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divine and we're part one, um, or part of each other. It's that red, that red thread theory. They
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have a theory that there's a red thread that connects you, an invisible red thread that connects you to all
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of your soulmates and all of your twin flames and all of the people that you're ever going to like.
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it connects, which entails connects all of us. And, um, this red thread combines all of us. And I feel
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like, um, there's some truth to that. We all are connected. We all are one. I can feel that sometimes
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in a very, very awesome meditative state or very, very sometimes real, you know, just in nature. And
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you just feel that oneness. You feel like we're all combined, but I do believe that there is somebody
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or another spirit or connection to another spirit that is different than everybody else. Um, you read
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about it in all the fantasy books, other romance books, they're called heart flames, heart matches,
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heart mates, um, faded, all of that kind of stuff. I believe the reason why that we love these stories
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or get pulled into these stories is because our souls know truth. Our spirit knows truth. And somewhere
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down the line, we know that this is true. Now, whether or not we meet that heart mate or twin flame
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in this lifetime or in other lifetimes, I don't know if that's necessary. I don't feel like you're
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with this heart mate in every or twin flame in every lifetime. I feel like it's hard to be
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with your twin flame and sometimes in every lifetime. And if you do get the chance to be with them in this,
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in a lifetime, sometimes the connection is so strong, but you don't get the luxury of,
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living a great, happy life. Like a lot of times when I do these Akashic record readings,
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it comes through that they didn't get there to live their whole lives together,
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or they didn't get to be together or something stopped them from being together.
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And I think that that's what pulls us to some of these stories. I mean, we get pulled into
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and even men do, right? Like, because even the guy who wrote Yellowstone 1923, he did the same thing.
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Like everybody's up in arms because there was the couple that, you know, the first season they fell
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completely in love. And then the second season, it was just about all of the whole season was them
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trying to get back together with each other, trying to find each other. And they just went through one
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problem after another. And then when they finally did something is simple takes, takes them out.
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So, and he is a male writer. He, he, he's a male writer. And, um, so I feel like, you know,
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spirit gives us these, this information or these downloads or these ideas to write about. And I feel
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like they come from ancient, our ancient ness, because in, you know, long time ago, back, back,
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back, back, we did have these faded mates or these, these twin flames, and we have been together with
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them. And we've had had some, we have had some extremely awesome lifetimes with them. And so when
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we meet up with them again, you feel it now, do I think that these twin flames are somebody who is
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fated to be with us forever? I don't know. I'm going to be completely honest. I don't know.
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Is it someone from the beginning of the time? Did someone take your soul and, and, and divide it and
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make this person into your flame? I don't know. Do I believe that throughout the different lifetimes,
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there's just a certain flame that we become compatible with, and that we have fell and fallen
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completely in love with unconditionally? Maybe. I just feel like there is, is, am I being romantic?
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Am I being like, I just think that there's just this deep knowing and spirit has brought it through
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to, through so many Akashic record readings that this is real. Like there is somebody that is,
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that, that, that, that doesn't necessarily complete us, but feels like they're part of us. And I feel
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like that we try to create that on earth. And that's why we've created marriage and we've created,
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you know, you find the one and then, but sometimes part of finding the one is, is, is the journey. Right.
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And so I just, and you know, I might in 10 years or five years from now, get back on here and be like,
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Oh, I got downloaded something else. I must've, but every time I taught that I reserve the right to
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change my mind. But every time I taught that there was no such thing as twin flames, um, it just,
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just didn't sit right with me. It didn't feel right. And now spirit is like letting me know that
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it is true. There, there can be somebody out there for us that does fit us completely, doesn't complete
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us, but fits us. And someone that we have been in love with, I, you know, this is the reason why it
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didn't ever really sit with me is because I've had visions of before I came here and somebody very
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much being with me telling me it's going to be okay. And I just know that this person I loved very
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deeply. And I think in a romantic way now, I don't know if it was, you know, who it was. Um, but I just
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know that that, that made me know that there's somebody, there are twin flames, there are twin
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flames. Now, whether or not, I don't know yet if it was, I am older than my husband. So it could be
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my husband now that that was, um, but you know, you don't, you don't ever know you don't. And I don't
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want to say something completely. I would like to think that that's the one thing about twin flames.
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That's hard too, is you, you want to think that it's the person that you're with, right? You want to
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think that, and sometimes it totally is. And sometimes it's not, I've heard that, you know,
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twin flame relationships can be very combustible or very hard. They're not easy peasy lemon squeezy.
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They're not all rainbows and roses, but I have had some say, you know, in some readings say that
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this is their easy lifetime together. This is their role. This is their reward lifetime together
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because through so many lifetimes, they couldn't be together. So, and I, and I know that that puts that
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romantic flame on it, which if you look at it, it's not being torn apart with someone you love
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very, very much. That's not romantic. That's not all the feel goods, right? Um, but even being
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together at the end at the final destination that can help it feel better, but still it doesn't.
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Yeah. So I guess what I'm saying is I don't really know the truth about soul. Soulmates are
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different. Soulmates are not romantic and they can be throughout your lifetime. Twin flames. Um,
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and there are karmic relationships to people that keep coming into your lifetime because you have
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karma, you have indebted karma to them. You have karma contracts with them. Those are starting to get
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few and far between because karma is starting to not be because, because people are starting to get to
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some of the end of their lifetimes or they're paying their karmic debt. But the twin flame thing,
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I'm just going to tell you how I feel. It's a very real thing. Um, I know it in my gut. I know it in
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my heart and, um, I don't feel like it disempowers us. I don't feel like it doesn't complete us. I feel
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like, um, that we need somebody else to complete us. I feel like it's part of who we are. It's part of an
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ancient, an ancient thing that we just, we love and we, we yearn for it because we know it. We know
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it. Our lives know it. Our, we feel it. So if you're one of those helpless romantics or you feel
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it, it's because it's true for you. It's true. There is, if you're one of those ones, it's like,
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no, there's no twin flames that it might not be true for you. There might not be a twin flame out
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there for you right now. You might not have found them, but for those of you who are deep,
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less deep, you know, deep romantics and helplessly romantic and love the, the love of the feeling of
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love. And I feel like there are twin flames out for you. I've seen them in Akashic records and I know
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I have one, um, where they are at this point. It could be my husband now. Could it be, I don't know
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yet. That hasn't been revealed to me. Um, but I just know they're real. And I was given that
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opportunity to see their real this, this last, this, this last couple of weeks or month. Um,
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because I did, I did believe the whole, they disempower you. They don't complete you,
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but something happened and a download or you could call it a download or just the Akashic records,
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just too many things simultaneously happened together that I do fully believe in twin flames.
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Now I do believe that they are part of us. Um, part of our heart, because here's the thing,
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everyone you ever loved is part of you, right? I'm going to cry. All of your children, all of your,
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you know, siblings, everyone that you've ever loved. That's why grief is so strong because when
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we lose that person, we lose part of a piece of us. Right. And so I feel like part of it is same
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with the twin flame. We go through some of our lifetimes with that person being gone or that flame
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being gone or not part of that lifetime. And we lose part of who we are. We are seeking something
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outside of ourself and that could be the divine, or it could be this twin flame because we're connected to
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them. Everyone you've ever loved, you're connected to, and they don't complete you. And you do have
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everything you need inside of you, but they're part of you. That's the difference. My, um, children
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will always be a part of me, even if they were to like shun me and say, they didn't want a part of me
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right now or, or leave, or when they pass, or they're always going to have, be part of my soul,
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right? They cannot have that much effect on me and not be part of my soul. And I think that that's what the
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twin flame is somewhere along the line, your balance, your ground, or your, your person that
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you just connected to, you met them and you don't know if you're with them or, or not. And they're
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part of you. It doesn't mean that they, you need them to complete who you are. It's just that they're
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part of you. And I think that that's what the twin flame is. They'll always be part of you in every
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lifetime and everything. And they're going to be part of that. And I think, you know, if this
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resonates with you and you feel it, then you know, it's truth, you know, it's truth. If it doesn't,
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then you probably don't have a twin flame out there. It's that's just how it is. But I do know when I was
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taught that twin flames don't exist, something didn't sit right with that with me. And I just know there is,
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there is some, some spirit out there that just connects on a level that no other spirit does.
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And, and that spirit, if that spirit's here on earth with you, you're trying to figure it out.
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But if that spirit is not on earth with you, that spirit is definitely watching over you.
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That spirit can be your main guide. That spirit can be an ancestor. That spirit can be
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a guide through right now. Um, but that spirit is helping you, helping you in any way that it can.
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So I hope that helps. I hope that that makes sense to you. I just wanted to get on here and set the
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record straight because I know I've told people before, there's no such thing as twin flames.
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They disempower you. And I take my words back, taking it back. And luckily in this profession,
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you can write like you can, because there is no box. It is not set in stone. It is no,
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this is, this is how the rules go. And just knowing in my heart and in my soul that there are twin flames
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and you have one out there. And so, um, yeah, I think that's cool. I think it's a beautiful thing.
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I think it's awesome. I think it's an ancient thing that we've had forever and that's why it resonates
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with us. And so, yeah, I hope that helps. I love you guys so much. I hope that gives you some insight
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on soulmates, karmic mates, um, twin flames. I think there's something known as a star flame too,
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but I'm not sure what that is. Um, I haven't been downloaded. I don't, I like to go look at it and
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see, but I haven't had anything downloaded to me to make that or spirit to tell me. So I kind of,
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and I kind of like to find these things out on my own, not, you know, it's good to go look on
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outside sources, but it's also good like this because you get taught things and you think,
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oh, that must be true. And then you figure out, oh wait, that might not be true. So I love you guys
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so much. I hope that helps you. I hope that gives you some insight. You are not alone. You, you have,
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you do have that undying romantic love out there somewhere. Um, and you may be this lifetime or
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another, but you'll find it. So I love you guys so much and I will see you guys maybe not next week,
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but the week after.
